If you are uncomfortable with lending your card to strangers, you could just simply say no to them. Did they terrorize you into lending your discount card to them? Or are you too afraid to say no for fear of repercussions (e.g kena scolding/Lose face)?
It is good if you are able to help others whenever you can. But if you feel uncomfortable about it, for reasons that you think are unfavorable or endangering to you, you can always refuse.
Quite a long time ago, I was approached to exchange some ringgit to sing dollar in JB by a stranger, after a split second decision, i decided not to for fear of ending up with counterfeit dollars. After being rejected the stranger was quite upset that i did not exchange with him. But there was a money changer stall just in front of us? :dunno:
There was one time i was queuing at BK to get some fastfood as i happened to have the discount coupon with me. Along came 2 ladies (not chio bu) and queue behind me. As they were discussing what to eat, i turn around and offered the rest of my unused coupon to them. They were quite surprised, but were happy to accept the coupons. They should at least save $2 to $3 from the coupons.
So, help whenever you can, but if you don't feel comfortable about it, you can always reject them.
As for your incident, i would lend my discount card to "them" if i can spare the time to wait. If i am in a rush, i would just tell them i can't as i am in a rush. This is applicable only to the discount card, for others i would need to reconsider first.
It is good if you are able to help others whenever you can. But if you feel uncomfortable about it, for reasons that you think are unfavorable or endangering to you, you can always refuse.
Quite a long time ago, I was approached to exchange some ringgit to sing dollar in JB by a stranger, after a split second decision, i decided not to for fear of ending up with counterfeit dollars. After being rejected the stranger was quite upset that i did not exchange with him. But there was a money changer stall just in front of us? :dunno:
There was one time i was queuing at BK to get some fastfood as i happened to have the discount coupon with me. Along came 2 ladies (not chio bu) and queue behind me. As they were discussing what to eat, i turn around and offered the rest of my unused coupon to them. They were quite surprised, but were happy to accept the coupons. They should at least save $2 to $3 from the coupons.
So, help whenever you can, but if you don't feel comfortable about it, you can always reject them.
As for your incident, i would lend my discount card to "them" if i can spare the time to wait. If i am in a rush, i would just tell them i can't as i am in a rush. This is applicable only to the discount card, for others i would need to reconsider first.