btw, i'm not implying that ALL kids are conditioned this way...
This is a polically correct statement, we learnt along the way. :bsmilie:
btw, i'm not implying that ALL kids are conditioned this way...
I'm just glad that unlike many other countries, there's no one on the streets now burning flags & chanting...
Haha... you're funny!
Yah, it feels good doesn't it? Everybody's so relaxed. May feel faked after a while but who cares. At least, you feel nice about it.
Yes, it's a culture shock. Cos it's so basic a thing that anyone from a civilized 1st world country will wonder, HUH? How come Singaporeans behave like that?
Sometimes, I got up a cab, I told the cab driver my destination, giving instructions on how to get there, but he kept quiet thruout right up to paying him the cab fare. But still, I was wondering, Damn, does he understand what I'm saying? Of course he did, else I wouldn't get where I wanted to go. That's another one of the rudest thing one can expect from a cab driver. It's these basic things as I said.... Shocking... Or should I say, F***ing shocking. :bsmilie:
I'm just glad that unlike many other countries, there's no one on the streets now burning flags & chanting...
4. Honking your car in the night unnecessarily;
I think it is too shallow to label people from other cultures as simply "rude", just becos they do not follow a particular set of behaviour that you are accustomed to. :nono:
It's just a cultural thing that you have to learn from whenever you go to other countries.
"The only reason the churches here are packed to the rafters is because people attend in order to network."ok... this i don't know how much truth there are to the above statement. anybody care to rebutt this?
In Mark 2:15 While he was at table in his house, many tax collectors and sinners sat with Jesus and his disciples; for there were many who followed him.no doubt about this.
Stupid generalisation attack and op-ed piece to fill newspaper pages and fulfill racial stereotypes. Singaporeans, like every population in the world, have a mixture of polite and impolite.
Although it would be nice if the drivers would indicate occasionally
the moment you indicate you will see the car accelerate faster instead of giving way. :bsmilie:
How about all the idiots & goondu's standing at the pedestrian light all waiting for just 1 person to press the button???Speaking of lift. How many times did you see an individual got squeezed by the elevator door because the idiot who went in first didn't hold the door.
Huh... I don't think this kind of behaviour is culturally exclusive. Certain basic courtesy is common across all cultures. If it cannot be achieved at all, then I don't know what can be called rude.
So which one are you?:dunno:
Good on ya BIC and Amen to that. We are the Light & Salt of the world so cheers!I'm sinner save by grace, let not speak of religion here.
So, there is a rule to say cab drivers has to talk to passengers? That's weird. :think: If you find what you said is correct, why did you delete the post I quoted from you?
What basic courtesy is common across all cultures (like in US, Britain, China, India,....)? Maybe, you can create a list.
Don't be anal about minor things!
The post was deleted even before you replied. Why I deleted it? I think I've contributed enough and don't want to dwell on this topic any more. I know in CS there will be people like you who will quote things out of context and then the whole issue will snowball to something stupid.
True enough. I didn't expect you to reply to it that's why I replied again. If I am so afraid of what I've said, I won't even bother replying what you wrote.
Everything must have rules? Oh, ok. So it's all right to rush into trains despite letting others out first? Cos there are no specific rules. How do you define rude then? Why don't you pick on the numerous other posts here of people who commented Rudeness is talking loudly on phones, giving way on the roads, etc. Since when are there rules to all these? If you have guts, quote them, and pick on them. Don't just pick on me.
You're exactly the kind of person I mentioned that must be educated and programmed thru textbooks. else dunno how to behave.
If you read my post carefully, I'm not even asking for the cab driver to small talk with me. I'm not even asking him to greet me with a Hello or whatever, though that's expected for people in the service industry. Ok granted, in Singapore, some people don't like to talk much. But for goodness sake, a simple nod or OK will kill?
Next time someone asks you a question or talks to you, maybe it's your father or mother, don't acknowledge and you tell me if it's rude or not?
Wow, if you got to ask me what is basic courtesy, I think you look really bad.
Ok man, you can reply to this post of mine all you want. Cos I won't be in it any more. It's friday!
btw, I don't think rudeness is the outcome of our education system. Psychologically, I think it is a by-product of these people literally or sub-conciousnessly felt that they are being suppressed in their home, workplace, school, etc.
racism and graciousness are two different thing.
Just like you I got a cultural shock when I was in Perth. They give way, they hold the door, they said "See you later" which I tot the salegirl was interested with me and wanna meet up later. Stupidly I waited. :bsmilie: