Reading up already>.> on for the different type of setting only. Been online doing research/video but ....
I even get a full focus picture with F3.5 in Apreturn mode? O_O
Upload a picture of you have taken at f3.5? All the pictures you took, did you upload to your pc to see?
At F3.5, unless you shoot very close to the subject and your other objects which are far from you, then you would get a bokeh..
Your depth of Field is important.
http://www.dofmaster.com/dofjs.html
Hope it helps, i also not an expert on it ;p