Nope, I will pick up the bone and throw it back at you.
Why your children is your immediate family and the parents of the children is not the childrens immediate family?
A mans actions by large are guided by his religion; culture and upbringing.
You are not just disagreeing with Singaporeans; you are actually disagreeing with Asians since we regard parents and GRAND PARENTS as immediate family in this part of the world.
I know you call your dad by name, split the bill over the dinner table and I respect that as yours culture.
Ohh. I just don't like him throwing his bone into our moral ground and I see it as littering
Lets stop here.
Good day....
jsbn, my sincerest apology that I have to reply to silence sky uncall or attack. I also believe silence sky's comment was a personal one, and the "spill over" can cast a cloud over this otherwise mind openning and thought provoking discussion.
Silence Sky, how did I throw bones into into YOUR moral grounds? I am lost at your accusatory statement. All I stated, is to challenge some convention believes. Are these believes so fragile that challenges are to be prohibited?
Here is my priority. First and foremost, my wife or partner, then my children, then my borthers and sisters, then my parents and then my grand parents. Sorry, aunties, uncles and cousins need not apply.
Why do I put my siblings ahead of my parents? Very simple, they represent the future.
Silence Sky, you said the following and I quote again:
"A mans actions by large are guided by his religion; culture and upbringing.
You are not just disagreeing with Singaporeans; you are actually disagreeing with Asians since we regard parents and GRAND PARENTS as immediate family in this part of the world."
Of course, my believe is based on my upbringing and culture. I am not a religious man. Are you so flipant, to a point that you totally disregard my upbringing and culture?
Of course, I am not just disagreeing with Singaporean, but is that not my "god" given right, if there is a god, to think freely, to agree and to disagree with others?
What is your problem, Silence Sky. If you want to pick a fight, sorry, I am busy. If you want to engage is a civilise debate, be my guest.
jsbn, again I am very sorry I OT your thread.