Let me use another scenario.
If someone praises you, would you find a need to question why he praises you?
Like, "hey, DP, you are wearing a nice jacket today."
Which confused person you know would reply "oh, really? can you explain in detail to me why it is nice?"
As opposed to, "hey, DP, your jacket is not so nice."
And if you are truly interested you would ask "why so?"
And he might tell you that it doesn't match your trousers, etc.
And compared to, "hey DP your jacket blardy sucks i feel like throwing into the trash"
Would you say: "sure, let me help you do it for myself"?
Anyways, for my quoting of your discussion in another forums, it was partially in jest, but I did hope that you would see where I'm coming from. =(