persistent wooer...help!

[wind30]

interested yes, but not gonna ask for pic if she thinks its not appropriate for her to show.

that is where the MONEY comes in.....

 

[deckard]

congratulations

tomorrow he will be there at 7 ;p

:bsmilie: next time you have to be there at 6! haha. :bsmilie:

 

[ortega]

want to know what jeanie looks like?


all you have to do is to find the lamp

and rub it right

 

[jeanie]

interested yes, but not gonna ask for pic if she thinks its not appropriate for her to show.

thanks for respecting my privacy.

 

[jeanie]

i'm a jeanie in a bottle.....

 

[Sjourn]

well, we've seen your hands, now we only have to imagine what the rest of you look like..:bsmilie:

 

[furrycake]

ya, but if you look like a pig, the right person comes in like once in a 1472432 years so yeah my advice is still give the persistent guys a chance.

Wah lao, aren't ANY OF YOU interested in what Jeanie looks like? I mean isn't this the MOST impt question in ALL YOUR MINDS when you are giving advice

So lets be pro-active and start a "Find out what Jeanie looks like" Fund. Everyone interested can trasnfer $1 into my POSB account and at the end of the day, maybe we can buy/steal/rob a picture of Jeanie from someone in CS.

Or maybe considering the number of views in this thread, we can afford to Pay Jeanie for a *gasp* paid shoot

:bigeyes::bigeyes:




my 2 cents worth to reply this thread :
HE has the rights to woo you, and you have the rights to reject. too bad i dont have guys after me anymore so i dont know what its like. chill, jeanie

 

[jeanie]

i'm a cross between



and





both pics LEECHED from my own CS gallery.

now, use your imagination.:bsmilie:

 

[Sjourn]

ooo,,nice hair.

 

[~Arcanic~]

i'm a cross between



and





both pics LEECHED from my own CS gallery.

now, use your imagination.:bsmilie:

lol, i have a poly fren who we liked to call her jeanie too...

but i dun think you two are the same though she has long hair..

the jeanie at my poly seems more like a photograph-ee than a photogaph-er.. :bsmilie:

 

[ortega]

i'm a jeanie in a bottle.....

without a head

 

[jeanie]

lol, i have a poly fren who we liked to call her jeanie too...

but i dun think you two are the same though she has long hair..

the jeanie at my poly seems more like a photograph-ee than a photogaph-er.. :bsmilie:

i'm really both.
phee and pher.

 

[deckard]

what is that new avatar? :bigeyes:

 

[ortega]

what is that new avatar? :bigeyes:

you have not been surfing CS enough to not have seen that picture
time to work harder

 

[~Arcanic~]

i'm really both.
phee and pher.

erm, just a stupid question, you wouldn't happen to be from ngee ann poly?

 

[asterixsg]

Jeanie,
No offence, but based on what I had 'seen' and 'heard' of you on this forum, I had the impression that you were perfectly capable of handling a situation like this.

As an attractive woman, you are bound to have your share of admirers. Last night I used the word 'pervert' for this guy. Actually, unless he does something obscene, I doubt I can classify him as a pervert. He is just an obsessive guy, totally infatuated with you. At some point, you might have unconsciously encouraged his moves. You might have found it pleasing to have someone worry after you. And this guy obviously got the wrong signals and went the wrong way.

The best way to deal with this is to tell him the truth. Getting another guy to go with you, coming to work early, going late etc. etc. are not gonna work. He will come up with ways to counteract your every move. Sit with him and tell him you DON'T CARE. Tell him if he wants to work with you, he better be professional about it - cut the personal crap. If he wants to break down and cry, so be it. If push comes to shove, threaten him. Tell him you will report to HR and that will be the end of the road for him. If he persists outside work, you can/should go to the police.

After all, you've got to choose what's important to you - your life and your sanity or your career.

There are all kinds of morons in this world, I just hope and wish that you get this guy off your back. Stay safe and take care.

 

[deckard]

you have not been surfing CS enough to not have seen that picture
time to work harder

I remember the long lens avatar. but that new avatar is new? look closer. :bigeyes:

 

[jeanie]

I have to confess that I've done all that with J.

I still go back to my wife. :bsmilie: :sweatsm:

you should.you should stand by your wife for life.
if you stray, you're nothing but a dog.:thumbsd:

 

[wranger]

congratulations

tomorrow he will be there at 7 ;p

Let hope this guy is not a CS forum member. :bsmilie:

 

[jeanie]

Jeanie,
No offence, but based on what I had 'seen' and 'heard' of you on this forum, I had the impression that you were perfectly capable of handling a situation like this.

As an attractive woman, you are bound to have your share of admirers. Last night I used the word 'pervert' for this guy. Actually, unless he does something obscene, I doubt I can classify him as a pervert. He is just an obsessive guy, totally infatuated with you. At some point, you might have unconsciously encouraged his moves. You might have found it pleasing to have someone worry after you. And this guy obviously got the wrong signals and went the wrong way.

The best way to deal with this is to tell him the truth. Getting another guy to go with you, coming to work early, going late etc. etc. are not gonna work. He will come up with ways to counteract your every move. Sit with him and tell him you DON'T CARE. Tell him if he wants to work with you, he better be professional about it - cut the personal crap. If he wants to break down and cry, so be it. If push comes to shove, threaten him. Tell him you will report to HR and that will be the end of the road for him. If he persists outside work, you can/should go to the police.

After all, you've got to choose what's important to you - your life and your sanity or your career.

There are all kinds of morons in this world, I just hope and wish that you get this guy off your back. Stay safe and take care.

after reading your post, i sat down and think hard.i really dont think i've ever 'encouraged' his moves.

thanks for the concern srini.