i'm really both.
phee and pher.
I used to know a jeanie too. She was a bit of both.
persistent wooer...help!
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I used to know a jeanie too. She was a bit of both.
the jeanie i know in my poly was more of a photograph-ee... :bsmilie:
pai seh, a bit OT liaoz..
I used to know a Jeanie too and she was my secondary school Form teacher
She used to give me extra English tuition after class cuz my English sucks.
Hey, looking at Jeanie's avatar, I think there are some similarities... at least from the recollections of a 14 year old, that was pretty much what I remembered from my English teacher
It seems everyone here know of a Jeanie. Wonder if there are any of my old school mates here who knows of the Jeanie Teacher.
after reading your post, i sat down and think hard.i really dont think i've ever 'encouraged' his moves.
thanks for the concern srini.
Good for you then. You've got a thousand suggestions here on how to get rid of this guy. Now, please put them into action. The sooner you do, the better its for you. I don't need to tell you that, right ? The TRUTH is always the best option, even if it hurts. If you are not confident of doing it alone, take your best friend along. Take care. We need a good portrait photographer in ClubSNAP :bsmilie: And you can't be at your creative best, when you've got morons like this guy to worry about
I used to know a Jeanie too and she was my secondary school Form teacher
She used to give me extra English tuition after class cuz my English sucks.
Hey, looking at Jeanie's avatar, I think there are some similarities... at least from the recollections of a 14 year old, that was pretty much what I remembered from my English teacher
It seems everyone here know of a Jeanie. Wonder if there are any of my old school mates here who knows of the Jeanie Teacher.
are u indirectly trying to say i'lm damn old?:bsmilie::bsmilie::bsmilie:
Good for you then. You've got a thousand suggestions here on how to get rid of this guy. Now, please put them into action. The sooner you do, the better its for you. I don't need to tell you that, right ? The TRUTH is always the best option, even if it hurts. If you are not confident of doing it alone, take your best friend along. Take care. We need a good portrait photographer in ClubSNAP :bsmilie: And you can't be at your creative best, when you've got morons like this guy to worry about
yup thanks.i've got heaps of suggestions from this thread.and i'll surely put some into practice.
already started since 7am this morning.
now that's crude.
but i'm sure he's done that.
that's why i'll never ask him dabao for me.
yup thanks.i've got heaps of suggestions from this thread.and i'll surely put some into practice.
already started since 7am this morning.
What if he reads this forum?
Do be careful if he knows you come to work early. Coming too early also no gd, wonder if you could be late sometimes. Or is that an alternative way up to your office.
Now you have a temp solution to your first problem, next I believe he would find all sort of chance to talk to u in office. If you are sitting in a room, lock the door and if he calls you, see if he's talking business or not. If not, cut off the line.
What if he reads this forum?
Actually, that would be the best thing to happen :bsmilie:
At least the moron will understand that by his so called infatuation, he is messing up someone's life.
Just my 2 cents worth, I think u should just be (brutally) honest with him. He'll respect you for being so honest and you two can just be friends
At the end of the day, just let him understand that "mian qiang si mei yo xing fu" i.e things cannot be forced.. you don't like him means you don't like him.
At the end of the day, just let him understand that "mian qiang si mei yo xing fu" i.e things cannot be forced.. you don't like him means you don't like him.
Tell him that you will never get involved with anyone at work because you value professionalism...
If he is as crazy as you say, he will quit...
Then at least you will be rid of him for most part of the day.
Evil right? :devil:
If he is as crazy as you say, he will quit...
Then at least you will be rid of him for most part of the day.
Evil right? :devil:
Then we have enough materials for "Basic Instinct III".
As long as it doesn't become "Fatal Attraction II". ;p
For a guy to really love (not like) a girl, he will not want to hurt her, pressurise her or make her feel uncomfortable in any way.
To tell him you have a boy friend won't help ... you can break up. Have a husband? Can divorce!
He is just being selfish, self-centred, and I would think he loves himself more than his 'girl friend'.
Ignore his existence in totality. If work requires you to deal with him, deal with him as an object, an entity.
Cut off any trace of emotion. When he jokes, appear blank, when he cries: blank, chit chat: blank ... only react when it's about work that you have to handle.
When he goes away, should you not throw a party for us all? :bsmilie::bsmilie:
To tell him you have a boy friend won't help ... you can break up. Have a husband? Can divorce!
He is just being selfish, self-centred, and I would think he loves himself more than his 'girl friend'.
Ignore his existence in totality. If work requires you to deal with him, deal with him as an object, an entity.
Cut off any trace of emotion. When he jokes, appear blank, when he cries: blank, chit chat: blank ... only react when it's about work that you have to handle.
When he goes away, should you not throw a party for us all? :bsmilie::bsmilie:
Jeanie, you mentioned that you told him off a few times. Have you actually spoken to him and got his reply/answer on why he is doing this after all your rejections?
Does he know what are the consequences of his actions? So far, unless it's lost somewhere, I have not seen his verbal reactions.
My gf encountered the same problem.
She just started working in her new company months back. Being in the same department, she went for lunch with him, etc. and she thinks nothing of it. Within few days, the guy started asking her out for a date, etc.. Despite of her mentioning that she's attached, it doesnt helps. The infatuation grows and she started to avoid him totally. The phone calls and sms doesnt seems to stop to the extend she started getting alittle paranoid.
She finally trashes all out with the guy and the guy has a immediate change of attitude. Before, the guy used to be extremely helpful at work and now, u guess it. Now, he doesnt even help and asked a lady to carry over 10kg of equipments.
If you are ready to "tear" your face with him, trash it out straight in the office and in the presence of many. It should be a good "wakeup" call for him.
Cheers
She just started working in her new company months back. Being in the same department, she went for lunch with him, etc. and she thinks nothing of it. Within few days, the guy started asking her out for a date, etc.. Despite of her mentioning that she's attached, it doesnt helps. The infatuation grows and she started to avoid him totally. The phone calls and sms doesnt seems to stop to the extend she started getting alittle paranoid.
She finally trashes all out with the guy and the guy has a immediate change of attitude. Before, the guy used to be extremely helpful at work and now, u guess it. Now, he doesnt even help and asked a lady to carry over 10kg of equipments.
If you are ready to "tear" your face with him, trash it out straight in the office and in the presence of many. It should be a good "wakeup" call for him.
Cheers
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