Will you stop your gf or wife from posting artistic nude photo of herself on web?

[Hommie]

yeap, glad that you now see that its not an issue

And your question being?? :bsmilie:

 

[vince123123]

no question you made an initial comment, I raised doubts on the validity of the comment, you appeared to retract your initial comment, and we dropped the issue cos its now a non-issue in view of your retraction.

cheers

And your question being?? :bsmilie:

 

[BurgaFlippinMan]

her own decision...

 

[Spectrum]

i really dun mind, come to think of it
most of my model even change in front of me... maybe i got desensitised.

Or you are a 'happy' guy? OK...OK... you know I'm just joking, right? :nono:

 

[nyxx88]

I feel nude photos isn't that bad. For me I wouldn't mind that much. As long as they don't touch my gf. However, my current GF is crazy, once I told her " ur sms, u write longer ok? save cost" she BOOM went mad, wanted to kill herself, went to work in KTV (illegal, indecent type)the KTV until 3am to bring her home!
Then last weekend, I told her I can't meet her (we met day before). Cousins coming, we have to drive them from airport, SG-->JB etc. plus, shes with her best friend to JB expected me to find god knows where location. Whoa, she went bonkers, wanted to kill herself, wanted to smoke non stop. Yesterday went east coast alone, I was afraid she might work at the KTV again, then didnt reply my sms since 4am. U know there're perv over @ east coast beach. I'm overseas now, can do nuts. . Oh well
If u think of this, posing nude isn't really that bad at all! sigh.

Wow!! This sounds pretty serious . Like you are being blackmailed emotionally (no flames please). It may be a situation that is beyond you & one that requires professional assistance.

 

[jodie_tan]

Its all based on upbringing and culture, i guess. The locals will definately go against it, whilst the Westerners would like it.Say if ur bf is ang moh, he'll prob go "What's the big deal/ If u have a sexy and attractive body, go ahead. I want the whole world to know that I have a sexy gf!"...
On my personal thinking, only a bimbo would do that.No females in sane mind would enjoy men reading her blog just because she posted her nude photo there...

 

[Hommie]

no question you made an initial comment, I raised doubts on the validity of the comment, you appeared to retract your initial comment, and we dropped the issue cos its now a non-issue in view of your retraction.

cheers

I actually did not 'appeared to retract' as I am not train in the field on laws of minors. Thus, I don't want to comment on it on whether they exist or not. Are you familiar with with such laws or have friends who are familiar with it? It will be good to know.

In Britain, there are very strict laws on shooting minors in nude(I read once in a english photography magazine). Photographers are known to be charge for shooting childrens in nude.

 

[Hommie]

Its all based on upbringing and culture, i guess. The locals will definately go against it, whilst the Westerners would like it.Say if ur bf is ang moh, he'll prob go "What's the big deal/ If u have a sexy and attractive body, go ahead. I want the whole world to know that I have a sexy gf!"...
On my personal thinking, only a bimbo would do that.No females in sane mind would enjoy men reading her blog just because she posted her nude photo there...

Actually, gals should answer this the other way round,:

Do you mind your boyfriend or husband posting his nude picture on the net?

 

[jodie_tan]

Actually, gals should answer this the other way round,:

Do you mind your boyfriend or husband posting his nude picture on the net?

My bf can go ahead and do it, that's if he wants pepole to see hm nude which i think he won't. But IF he does, go ahead, don't come back to me crying!

 

[wiki]

Just curious, what is one trying to express when they decide to put their nude online? The most common reason i heard is that because they are still young, they would like to capture the memory before they go old. Rather valid reason, but most of the time it is kinda of private collection and maybe shown only to close friends, etc. The next common are the celebreties and most of the time their reason would be they think their body is good and like to share with others (but most of the time they charge for their books!)

So for the rest, what is the reason for posting a nude? Anyway i do think that some of the nudes out there by those jap models really look great, but most of the time i think woman with clothes on looks better than without. Anyone else with the same thought??

 

[reachme2003]

exhibitionism, heard of it?

Just curious, what is one trying to express when they decide to put their nude online? The most common reason i heard is that because they are still young, they would like to capture the memory before they go old. Rather valid reason, but most of the time it is kinda of private collection and maybe shown only to close friends, etc. The next common are the celebreties and most of the time their reason would be they think their body is good and like to share with others (but most of the time they charge for their books!)

So for the rest, what is the reason for posting a nude? Anyway i do think that some of the nudes out there by those jap models really look great, but most of the time i think woman with clothes on looks better than without. Anyone else with the same thought??

 

[Ashleyy]

Well, it's her body, so her choice loh.. hahaa :bsmilie:

 

[mattlock]

I'm sure some people here know my stance regarding the whole spg thing, which is it's no big deal
my girlfriend has had nude pictures of herself taken by a photographer in australia, and I myself have done nude photos of her.Would I like her to post it up on a site frequented by Singaporeans? No,because there is no appreciation for the human body as a beautiful form in Singapore, and the people who make noise about it being disgusting and immoral are many times those people who actually secretly look out for porn all the time
I wouldn't mind having it posted in an European context where the nude is not seen as disgusting and you'll actually find alot of nudes present in their advertising.

it's all about context.

 

[mattlock]

Being bachelor, the question is irrelevant. kekeke.... :sticktong

But what I dun understand is why she want to post it in public(web)? For others pple to comment about her perfect/not so perfect body.....it just dun make much sense.
Again, I must said: Attention seeking? Show off? try to make it in show biz? :bsmilie:

If it is for charities, the answer would be alot different. :thumbsup:


How little the people think about the consequences of their actions these days....for betta or worst, I am glad I dun have to live with it.

benign, it depends on the intention of the person. I shoot alot of models and we do semi nude shots involving uncovered breasts and whatnots, to us we understand that we're involved in the creation of an image, and we will go all the way to create this beautiful image. I would never demean my models for doing that.

I don't understand how doing it for charity makes it any different.

 

[Benign]

I don't understand how doing it for charity makes it any different.

Because it makes pornography looks good feels good are good. :bsmilie:

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What is pornography? What is artistic nude?

When we were apes trying to call ourselves humans by wearing clothes and having set of laws to determine what is socially acceptable.

Now we are humans.....some decided to go arts by having more provocative nudes and trying to justify his/her says as socially acceptable.

Animal instinct? Freedom of speech? Or just plain ignorant?

Personally I am not saying that it is bad, but whatever you do. Please keep your fetish, SM, beastiality at home and at bay. Chinese old saying: "When people give you an inch, you want a FOOT"

FYI, this is a poll. It is asking for people opinion. Not taking people's words out of context, argue for the sake of arguing.

YAWN

Photography is not just about nude, and I do love my gf in cheongsam than lingeries......it is her heart not her body.

Dun blame me for what I say, if you dun like it. After all, I openly admit for having an IQ of 92. :bsmilie: Unless, you are below mine....who wish to take it seriously.

 

[student]

why so many people post "no"

If you look at the poills, actually it is 50-50.

 

[elise_ng]

Perhaps the problem doesn’t arise in your girlfriend or wife posting artistic nude photos of herself online but is about:

• The kinds of crowd she desires to attract (professional, artistic photographers or lecherous men),
• The image she wants to portray (an artistic photography model or a pornography model),
• And the ways she markets/advertises herself (whether her site is listed in public search engine, did she simply give her site address to just anyone or only to photographers, and etc).

If your girlfriend or wife handles everything properly, there shouldn’t be much problem such as lecherous men visiting her site. Perhaps you should appreciate her gut and her confidence about her body as many girls are usually unhappy about their figures and want to go on diets.

However, by nature, humans are egoistic and selfish. Therefore, it is natural for a man to stop his girlfriend or wife from posting her nude photos online.

 

[Hommie]

However, by nature, humans are egoistic and selfish. Therefore, it is natural for a man to stop his girlfriend or wife from posting her nude photos online.

Haha, ladies should answer the other way around instead of at the perpective of man. Change the question to

"Would you stop your Boyfriend or Husband posting artistic nude of himself on the web??"

 

[hongsien]

I'm sure some people here know my stance regarding the whole spg thing, which is it's no big deal
my girlfriend has had nude pictures of herself taken by a photographer in australia, and I myself have done nude photos of her.Would I like her to post it up on a site frequented by Singaporeans? No,because there is no appreciation for the human body as a beautiful form in Singapore, and the people who make noise about it being disgusting and immoral are many times those people who actually secretly look out for porn all the time
I wouldn't mind having it posted in an European context where the nude is not seen as disgusting and you'll actually find alot of nudes present in their advertising.

it's all about context.

I did see alot of girls wearing those sexy short while I was in SG (not that I minded, as long as they have nice legs....), this was something I was amazed at as I noticed people were still conservative.........

HS

 

[hongsien]

Yah man... maybe someone should start a revolution of the nude photography. Instead of sexy pics, how about really obiang pics. Like men with droopy boobs, distorted teats, hairy legs, pock-marked buttocks... wah..almost like a crude version of Botello! :bsmilie:

Still nude mah!

-mb

Go to those markets where people selling medicine against all kinds of skin problems etc......

HS