becos there's no1 else..(2 meanings haha)
What do you really have to answer to your partner or rather what will you say to your partner?
I had a friend whom 3 nights before his wedding, the wife-to-be asked him to be truthful and asked him just that. He was dumbfounded and had no answer to her. The wedding was almost trashed. It took many people to pulled it together and even then it was not entirely a happy one on that day.
Childhood sweetheart too...been together since school day till her graduated and worked a number of years but it was just so taken for granted that you partok and then after so many years it is time to get marry like going thru the motion just like everyone does...that in the end he got no answer to why he does love her or not or why they should married.
Been together so long ....so have to marry lah. That kind of mentality. Not even sure now if it lasted. It has been years. First love to each other too. Prior to this a year before the marriage, he strayed a few times and tasted other women as he found success in his career and this geeky nerd once ignored since young but by this also nerdy girl has now more choices then in younger days.
becos there's no1 else..(2 meanings haha)
Cos your dad's richWhy do you love me?
I had a friend whom 3 nights before his wedding, the wife-to-be asked him to be truthful and asked him just that. He was dumbfounded and had no answer to her. The wedding was almost trashed. It took many people to pulled it together and even then it was not entirely a happy one on that day.
Childhood sweetheart too...been together since school day till her graduated and worked a number of years but it was just so taken for granted that you partok and then after so many years it is time to get marry like going thru the motion just like everyone does...that in the end he got no answer to why he does love her or not or why they should married.
Been together so long ....so have to marry lah. That kind of mentality. Not even sure now if it lasted. It has been years. First love to each other too. Prior to this a year before the marriage, he strayed a few times and tasted other women as he found success in his career and this geeky nerd once ignored since young but by this also nerdy girl has now more choices then in younger days.
The ultimate problem with people is that they jump straight into wooing after the other party soon after meeting them.More often than not and I dare place my bet,it's a "love at first sight" kind of fall head over heels.Love?It's really lust under the sheep skin.
To begin with,Love isn't a feeling.It's a choice of commitment irregardless of fleeting emotions.The falling out of a relationship after the driving emotion fails to take pilot is the greatest attestment to such edvidences.
But jumping straight into a relationship,both party are setting themselve up for potential future hurts.
And in the relationship,the focus is pretty much on the physical aspect and intimacy instead of the bonding via charecter understanding.
None take the time to know the charecter and personality of one another.A good foundation would begin by knowing and interacting with that other party for more than 8 mnths.Sounds long but we're talking about life long decision.Well,at least to me,the only reason why one should get into a relationship is because they want to work towards a life time commitment with the person whom they're courting.
My time is too precious to be wasted on meaningless human relationships.People should stop wasting the time of each other if they're just gonna get into a relationship to 'learn' and do water testing.
The ultimate problem with people is that they jump straight into wooing after the other party soon after meeting them.More often than not and I dare place my bet,it's a "love at first sight" kind of fall head over heels.Love?It's really lust under the sheep skin.
To begin with,Love isn't a feeling.It's a choice of commitment irregardless of fleeting emotions.The falling out of a relationship after the driving emotion fails to take pilot is the greatest attestment to such edvidences.
But jumping straight into a relationship,both party are setting themselve up for potential future hurts.
And in the relationship,the focus is pretty much on the physical aspect and intimacy instead of the bonding via charecter understanding.
None take the time to know the charecter and personality of one another.A good foundation would begin by knowing and interacting with that other party for more than 8 mnths.Sounds long but we're talking about life long decision.Well,at least to me,the only reason why one should get into a relationship is because they want to work towards a life time commitment with the person whom they're courting.
My time is too precious to be wasted on meaningless human relationships.People should stop wasting the time of each other if they're just gonna get into a relationship to 'learn' and do water testing.
The ultimate problem with people is that they jump straight into wooing after the other party soon after meeting them.More often than not and I dare place my bet,it's a "love at first sight" kind of fall head over heels.Love?It's really lust under the sheep skin.
To begin with,Love isn't a feeling.It's a choice of commitment irregardless of fleeting emotions.The falling out of a relationship after the driving emotion fails to take pilot is the greatest attestment to such edvidences.
But jumping straight into a relationship,both party are setting themselve up for potential future hurts.
And in the relationship,the focus is pretty much on the physical aspect and intimacy instead of the bonding via charecter understanding.
None take the time to know the charecter and personality of one another.A good foundation would begin by knowing and interacting with that other party for more than 8 mnths.Sounds long but we're talking about life long decision.Well,at least to me,the only reason why one should get into a relationship is because they want to work towards a life time commitment with the person whom they're courting.
My time is too precious to be wasted on meaningless human relationships.People should stop wasting the time of each other if they're just gonna get into a relationship to 'learn' and do water testing.
:thumbsup: good comment!
well, i believed lots of young couples out there are testing waters themselves...
Is it that difficult to answer?
1) Love is blind, there is no special reason to love you cos I love for who you are.
2) You make my life completes, without you, everyday feels aimless.
3) I love the way you make me smile, and I wish that your smile will be forever there for me
4) There is no reason why I love you. I just want to spend the rest of my life with you sharing joy and sorrows together till the end of life
5) You are my light in the darkness who make me walk out of my shadows, and I also wants to be your light in your darkness and never let you step into darkness again.
6) I do not know why I love you, but I want you to go through the rainy days with you and see the rainbows till forever.