dun be surprise if he sing Woo Woo Yeah Yeah tomorrow... :bsmilie:
Maybe he sing banana song Day O instead
dun be surprise if he sing Woo Woo Yeah Yeah tomorrow... :bsmilie:
have an affair then.:sticktong
ok guys, enough of banter.
thanks for all advises.
really wonder if he surfs CS.
he has been very quiet today.:bsmilie:
暴风雨的前夕是平静的......something is cooking......he might be plotting his final assault.......God bless....I start worrying for you :lovegrin:
disclaimer: i dont mean to start this thread to blow my own ego over cyberspace.
i need you guys' advice...again.
i have a VERY persistent colleague who's overly infatuated with me.
it has become like an obsession and it's really affecting me.
eg,
1)he'll wait at carpark lift lobby for me everyday to go in office with me
2)he'll come to my office and ask me if i want to dine out or whether i would like him to dabao for me
3)he'll persistently ask me out for movies/dinner/a walk in the park
4)he'll send me "have a nice day email" almost everyday, not to mention BD,and special occasions like valentines/xmas
5)he'll come over every time and ask if i have time as he has things to tell me.then he'll start telling me those mushy stuffs and i'll just brush and walk off.
these are just some examples of what irritates me.
i've turn him down up front in the face countless of times.but maybe men just dont get it?:dunno:
and they say being loved is much luckier than you loving someone else?
i seriously doubt this.
any suggestions?:embrass:
how about introducing him to your over-perfumed colleague? who knows, he might like her. :think:
mine is just a suggestion. :bsmilie: its like hitting 2 birds with 1 stone. :bsmilie:
The worst thing about guys like this - is that they don't know when they OT.
When you're unkind to them they think you're playing hard to get. You're a game.
You need to have a frank talk with the guy and tell him that he is upsetting you and you would be grateful if he would back off as you have no desire what's so ever to having a relationship with him. If he still continues you should report him to HR (if your company has an HR).
If you feel sorry for the guy and "don't want to get him fired" then sadly you may have to put up with it. He'll hang onto the time you gave him a lift in your car or when you first met him you smiled and were nice to him.
I have had a similar experience and hoped that the guy would disappear and did stupid things so that he would understand that I am not interested. Example: I invited him out for a drink with another buddy, got him to buy the drinks, shook his hand and said goodbye and my friend reaffirmed this. We left him and he didn't get it! This went on for four years when I was stupid and naive! Some guys (sorry guys) are so thick they think you're playing a game.
Good luck jeanie and hope you have a better way of getting him off your back.
---Agony Aunt---
thanks Ice jie jie.:thumbsup:
ya, 1 kuku bird & 1 smelly bird... :bsmilie:
Has he met your over-perfumed colleague yet? :bsmilie:
really wonder if he surfs CS.
he has been very quiet today.:bsmilie:
Gosh, this thread is hot.
Do you and that guy have mutual friends?
Maybe you can seek their help in getting the message across to him? If everyone around him starts to sing the same tune, MAYBE he'll back off from you.