Deadpoet said:
I still hate messy hair.
But I wonder, did I mentioned messy hair in Joe's thread?
Sorry Joe, I am going to OT in your thread.
I have said it before, I won't start a fight, but I will finish any fight anyone drag me into. Right now, it looks to me, someone is picking a fight. Better back off!
I am not God Almighty and I do not know if the "someone" you are referring to is me. I assume it is me, because I am the only one who gave a "lengthy" comment on messy hair in this thread.
You said that you do not want to start a fight, but your tone is extremely confrontational.
"Better back off".
And in another thread, you wrote "Gloves off".
Since I do agree with you on the freedom of speech and expression, these repeated threats of yours appear to me to be inconsistent with freedom of speech. You want to sock me with your bare knuckles? I had not taken up the challenge the previous round, but here you issued a threat again. This time, I will oblige you.
Now let me get back to this thread.
My post here was a reply to Joe because of what he wrote
"I KNOW, MESSY HAIR"
In writing this, Joe gave an impression that messy hair was a NO NO! Why did he say that?
It takes no imagination to know that there is someone here on a crusade against messy hair. And Joe was so cowed that he was almost "apologetic" and "fearful" that he wrote, "I Know, messy hair".
Now where did that arise from? Was Joe's apologetic statement necessary?
So I set out to explain. And since you replied, obviously to what I wrote, and warned me to "Better back off", I ask you, which of my comments were out of line?
Is it wrong to say that critiques reflect on the person giving the critique?
Is it wrong to say that critiques are not gospel truths?
Is it wrong to say that it is OK for the person to dislike messy hairs?
Is it wrong to say that it is not OK for any person to push his opinions on messy hairs as if the opinions were like "photography commandments"? This is precisely what had happened with Joe writing this way.
Is it wrong to say that images are visual communications? And the author alone should decide how he wants to communicate?
Is it wrong to say "hear what others say, but do not be apologetic about what you are trying to communicate"?
Is it wrong to show and inform that great photographers had made great images of supermodels with messy hairs?
Is it wrong to say that those images with messy hairs (stage or "accidental") work because those photographers knew what they want to communicate?
Is it wrong to suggest to Joe to look at lots and lots of images, and learn from their imageries?
And if Joe study these images, he will soon realise that these great photographers break so many of your "rules" and your likes and dislikes.
Now then there is a dilemma. Who should Joe listen to -if he were given conflicting opinions?
You? I do not want to assume you know little about photography. You might be a great photographer. But I have no means to assess your worth as a photographer. And as far as I am concern, the few images you showed in this forum suck. And since your images suck, I conclude you have little credentials as a photographers. I conclude your crusade against messy hairs and other issues, have that hollowness to it.
You are like a cartographer telling a sailor how to sail.
So Joe has a dilemma.
Who should he listen to? Whom should he take advice from?
A sailor? Or a cartographer?
Oh, and did I tell Joe that his images must have messy hairs?