You think so too? My friends and family say the same too.
Doesn't pay to be kind.
This has NOTHING to do with being kind/unkind..... just your own house rules
You think so too? My friends and family say the same too.
Doesn't pay to be kind.
I personally think your maid has been working with you for too long... and is starting to ride over your head.... As for the prayer part... I believe it is a obligation but to be honest I dont see my muslim counterparts at work do that 5 times a day.... For her to ask from beginning I would say carry on and let her do it. Respecting that she is religious. But after so long now she ask for it.... Errr Im more afraid more requests would come later....
If you may be corrected, 5 prayers in a day is not an obligation it's compulsory. There are several reasons why you don't see your Muslim counterpart performing their prayer 5 times a day.
1. Prayer times are spread over the day, the first prayer is at dawn followed by late afternoon usually between 12.45 pm to around 4 pm, the late afternoon prayer follows after that till about 7pm. Early evening prayers is between 7pm to 8.30 pm followed by night prayers after 8,30 pm till before dawn.
2. Some Muslims perform their prayer discreetly, like during their lunch hour or they excuse themselves giving toilet break or cigarette break as an excuse. All they need is a prayer mat and a secluded spot to perform their prayer without alarming their colleagues or anyone else.
3. The last reason is rather crude, without offending any Muslims.. not all Muslims are really Muslims, they do not perform their prayers, they do not abstain from alcohol nor do their eat halal food. This is what is term as a Muslim by name but not a practicing one. This is quite common in all religion, you term yourself as a believer of the faith but you practice none of what is required from you by the faith, you can be a Hindu, a Christian, a Jew or a Buddhist.
I can cite more reasons, but the main point put forward, if you are unsure of any one particular religion and their belief, it's best not to conclude if what they practice is an obligation or a compulsion.
Best to stop the topic or thread.
It may degenerate into a religious/racial bias thing.
What space or freedom you want to give your maid is between you and her.
How much more you want to pay her and how much she asks for, ($30 more a month is reasonable. It is really not a lot) It depends on how much you have been paying her in the first place. (is it too little?) And what work you demand of her day to day.
It is possible that she is influenced by others. Either back home when she returns to Indonesia or in Sing itself.
A sudden insistence on outward behavioural actions to emphasis one's religiosity (in any religion) by anyone is usually not a good sign. Especially when it is accompanied by escalating demands.
If you feel so uneasy, then change maids.
Also, ensure she does not go to casino on her off day. You will be in for alot more trouble.
There are many cases of maid going casino over recent weeks and i have a few friends who had had enough of their gambling and asking for advance pay 6mths ahead.