maybe the TS can also consider canon's 300D, 350D or 400D?
they are smaller and lighter than nikon D50/D70 in size. was thinking for a lady just starting out, maybe easier for her?
Yep. Actually she should go down to the shop and try out for herself.
See which one she prefers and is comfortable with it.
Got some camera e.g. D70 and D80 has two dials, for aperture and shutter speed.
And the 400D has its status preview on its lcd compared to the rest.
Find something tt suits your liking.