persistent wooer...help!
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I wouldn't do that... in case something of his decides to take heed and stands up. Haha!
Anyways, just bring this up to your mgmt or HR. let them deal with it.
general answers to some of the comments given ya...
1)yes, he knows about the overperfumed colleague.he had also complained about her.and he doesnt like her(well, at least that's what he told me)
2)changing car out of question.love my car too much.and also, i really dont think he wont know about it if i really do.
3)my meetings schedules, usually it's me who arrange for meetings, unless it's a departmenal kind of thing and i wont be the one calling the shots.
anyway, i spoke to my boss.he asked if i would like to do a confrontation in his office with him around for 'moderation' and 'mediation' purposes.i told him i will keep that option open.if things escalates, then i'll barge right in.very understanding boss.totally professional about it.
only thing is he joked about one thing which some of you guys said!i was totally shocked!
he said :"maybe you should wear sooo nicely everyday, and keep that long hair tied!".:bsmilie::bsmilie:
he was really only kiddin.but such familiar words, makes me wonder if he(my boss) surfs CS:bsmilie:!
so guys, dont say i always bitch without taking you guys advice ok?i've already done lots.
cold shoulder, professional-"no-sh!t"-face, ignore his sms, emails, and now, i went to my boss(who's really quite a big fry in organisation), the next person after him will be CEO i reckon.
cheerios to CS.:kiss:
1)yes, he knows about the overperfumed colleague.he had also complained about her.and he doesnt like her(well, at least that's what he told me)
2)changing car out of question.love my car too much.and also, i really dont think he wont know about it if i really do.
3)my meetings schedules, usually it's me who arrange for meetings, unless it's a departmenal kind of thing and i wont be the one calling the shots.
anyway, i spoke to my boss.he asked if i would like to do a confrontation in his office with him around for 'moderation' and 'mediation' purposes.i told him i will keep that option open.if things escalates, then i'll barge right in.very understanding boss.totally professional about it.
only thing is he joked about one thing which some of you guys said!i was totally shocked!
he said :"maybe you should wear sooo nicely everyday, and keep that long hair tied!".:bsmilie::bsmilie:
he was really only kiddin.but such familiar words, makes me wonder if he(my boss) surfs CS:bsmilie:!
so guys, dont say i always bitch without taking you guys advice ok?i've already done lots.
cold shoulder, professional-"no-sh!t"-face, ignore his sms, emails, and now, i went to my boss(who's really quite a big fry in organisation), the next person after him will be CEO i reckon.
cheerios to CS.:kiss:
Hate? No leh ! Just a bit of humour.:angel:
But frankly, You are a big girl ! You probably dun need all this "help".
The only valuable solution will come from you, no matter what others say.
Good luck with your unconditionnal fan. :bheart:
But frankly, You are a big girl ! You probably dun need all this "help".
The only valuable solution will come from you, no matter what others say.
Good luck with your unconditionnal fan. :bheart:
miso- means hatred mah.
i've already given up hope before i decide to post for advice here in CS.
with the vast imaginations of photogs here, i reckon i can get some 'artistic' advice.:bsmilie:
Absolutely right ! From the greek miso. But I dun hate you. I would need to meet you first to make an opinion. (Maybe at the lift of you office with the playboy:bsmilie
It was just a little play on word, a bit macho :devil: but just a play on word :angel:.
I did not read the entire thread, but have you managed to receive some creative ideas beyond what you have already done that you would be in a position to put in practice?
Unfortunately,if people get too creative in their suggestions, I am afraid that the general conservative behaviour of the Sg girl (mainly in the professional environment) will not be able to execute them.
Anyway, it seems that what you have done was the correct thing to do.
Dun think there is much more you can "seriously" do.
It was just a little play on word, a bit macho :devil: but just a play on word :angel:.
I did not read the entire thread, but have you managed to receive some creative ideas beyond what you have already done that you would be in a position to put in practice?
Unfortunately,if people get too creative in their suggestions, I am afraid that the general conservative behaviour of the Sg girl (mainly in the professional environment) will not be able to execute them.
Anyway, it seems that what you have done was the correct thing to do.
Dun think there is much more you can "seriously" do.
Please keep us informed of any updates
Will it be "Terminator 4" or "Basic Instinct 3" ending?? :bsmilie:
Will it be "Terminator 4" or "Basic Instinct 3" ending?? :bsmilie:
I think Mr Wooer is damn stupid. He could just be nice and maintain the friendship. Why be so irritating, until the friendship sours? At least when you are friends, there is a faint possibility. But now, things are getting ugly... so there's no chance at all. Now he can't even be a friend. So, he won't even get to enjoy Jeanie's company as a friend, which I'm sure is interesting and fun, judging from her threads.
It's really his loss...
It's really his loss...
Please keep us informed of any updates
Will it be "Terminator 4" or "Basic Instinct 3" ending?? :bsmilie:
maybe is "transfomers" ending. :bsmilie:
Hope your clouds will be cleared after you have done so many things.
May your "white horse" come soon to pick you up. Cheers
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