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judeseah

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posted under B/S to sell 2 CF cards,
after 2 bidders posting ur intentions,
i close the thread n announce them winners.

later, i receive a PM from 1 of them saying



"hey how come no any single news from u?
From the board it seems like u sell it to another guy already.
But here u claim I am the winner????
And not even any single apology???

Mannnn..... u r a bad seller.... and it is very rude...
claim I am the winner and sell it to other ppl"

i still have the card with me,
and i thot he smsed me???
and when he did not confirm the timing for today,
i have to postpone the meetup till wed.
anyway, i was shocked.
now i m offended,
should i continue with the sales???

rather throw it away than to let an ass benefit.

:angry:
 

jbma

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I think it is just a misunderstanding. These things happens in B&S. Don't take it to serious. Sell it to someone else if you are not happy. But I think since you announced him as being the winner you should offer it to him as a courtesy. If he refused then you can sell it to someone else.
 

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since you are still in the middle of the transaction, it would not be good to complain about your buyers. if they played you out, then it is a different story. Looks like it is a misunderstanding, air it out between you and him.
 

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TMC said:
since you are still in the middle of the transaction, it would not be good to complain about your buyers. if they played you out, then it is a different story. Looks like it is a misunderstanding, air it out between you and him.
perhaps, threadstarter is using the indirect approach... ;p
 

judeseah

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thanks for ur opinions,
still am mad with him.
never once in my life anyone called me rude,
now from someone that i think is benefitting
from my genorousity.

continue the sales?
if i can avoid seeing his face,
i will consider.
anyway, after the furious typing,
furious backspacing(due to the larger than usual error),
cooling down.
will call the backups who smsed me if
i don't receive apologies from him.
its his carelessness that he missed the part
that i hv 2 cards.

must go to 4 horses road for prayer.
 

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It's ok, I've met very smug people while dealing also, it's life. Just deal and FO. Don't need to talk too much.
 

sORe-EyEz

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i oso got into a misunderstanding b4. :sweat:

i guess jus hav 2 learn from experience on how 2 avoid loopholes, communicate certain details, updating d thread on info, etc. i oso hav 2 read other CSers' thread & gleen tips on hoew 2 conduct a smoother & more fuss-free transaction. :)

dun let an isolated incident get u so worked up, not all will b transactionz smooth. get mad, but get over it. there r other things in life more worth of ur energy & time. cheers!!:cheers:
 

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sORe-EyEz said:
i oso got into a misunderstanding b4. :sweat:

i guess jus hav 2 learn from experience on how 2 avoid loopholes, communicate certain details, updating d thread on info, etc. i oso hav 2 read other CSers' thread & gleen tips on hoew 2 conduct a smoother & more fuss-free transaction. :)

dun let an isolated incident get u so worked up, not all will b transactionz smooth. get mad, but get over it. there r other things in life more worth of ur energy & time. cheers!!:cheers:
thanks.

what pissed me off was he did not
bother to read carefully or find out from me
b4 calling me names when he felt that i should hv said sorry.

why like that?

n my flash has to stop working at the same time :cry:
 

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dont waste such time getting mad at one person.
explain to him briefly and thats it. If he dont bother, that heck care.
not like he is oferring 1 million for it. Easy to find other buyers
 

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judeseah said:
thanks for ur opinions,
still am mad with him.
never once in my life anyone called me rude,
now from someone that i think is benefitting
from my genorousity.

continue the sales?
if i can avoid seeing his face,
i will consider.
anyway, after the furious typing,
furious backspacing(due to the larger than usual error),
cooling down.
will call the backups who smsed me if
i don't receive apologies from him.
its his carelessness that he missed the part
that i hv 2 cards.

must go to 4 horses road for prayer.
Yo buddy.....take it easy man!.....this type of case not worth to get bothered about.
and yes.....think you have to pay a visit to 4 horse road.....kind of things are not shinning on your side recently........flash on and May God Bless You....;)
 

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We might need B&S star rating. 1 star==>bad buyer or seller, 5 star==>top buyer or seller.

How we do that? Let the gurus think :think: .

Regards,
Arto.
 

RossChang

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Artosoft said:
We might need B&S star rating. 1 star==>bad buyer or seller, 5 star==>top buyer or seller.

How we do that? Let the gurus think :think: .

Regards,
Arto.
We put complicated system to remedy simple common senses, because we human at times, refuse to use common sense. what have this world turn into?:dunno:

To Thread Started: I Think the other fella tot u have 1 card instead of 2, so when u close thread and announce winner... that inDUHvidual probably overreacted... sorta like tat... neitherway, like ESPN Said, FO tat guy and get along with life...
 

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