To me love is defined as an intense fondness. I don't know if forgive has anything to do with it really. I mean who would want to love someone or something that one has to forgive all of the time. That implies some sort of dysfunctional thing.
If you are always at the receiving end and don't do anything about it I would suspect some sort of masochistic tendencies.
I can forgive once if I see the right attitude at the other side, but not a second time. After that it's gone case and I remove such people from my life.