Is your's like that?


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Do Singaporean girlfriends behave like this? | Singapore Showbiz - Yahoo! Entertainment Singapore

To be fair, if many men like demure girls, some girls would want an obedient bf. Then again, in this world, there is no henpecked men, just men who respects their lady. Of course, everyone has limit, none of the comments brought up this point: taking respect for granted. The next episode will be this guy turning into a bad bf. Some bad guys started nice, but got turned nasty. Just because someone is willing to go so far for you, doesn't mean you necessarily need to let the person go that far. Just my views. ;)
 

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haha, I MUST be spending too much time on photography forums. All I could think of when watching the video was - "Nice bokeh".

But back to the video - well, if the guy can put up with this, she *must* be great in bed. ;)
 

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haha, I MUST be spending too much time on photography forums. All I could think of when watching the video was - "Nice bokeh".

But back to the video - well, if the guy can put up with this, she *must* be great in bed. ;)
Lol i ended up looking at the "bokeh rings" as well and finding it so damn distracting.

May not be. He might love her so much he agrees on not going to bed with her till married. ;)
 

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haha, if that's the case I can already tell where the relationship is headed - she's gonna jump ship to the next guy who buys her a nicer bag or who drives a car, he'll go on to get a Vietnamese bride and live happily ever after. :cool:

Well, but thankfully all the girls I know are all not like that.... neither is my wife. But I'll keep my distance from these kinds of people anyway.
 

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silencer13 said:
haha, if that's the case I can already tell where the relationship is headed - she's gonna jump ship to the next guy who buys her a nicer bag or who drives a car, he'll go on to get a Vietnamese bride and live happily ever after. :cool:

Well, but thankfully all the girls I know are all not like that.... neither is my wife. But I'll keep my distance from these kinds of people anyway.
Lucky you. Treasure your wife. :) as for friends, i don't really trust what i see or hear. I always believe you won't know what goes on in between the couple. Some will look damn nice but behind the friends...piak! One tight slap on his face.

One thing i cant stand, is people who slap their other half no matter which gender.
 

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Very true... many many are like that...

That's why I think the local gals should do NS as well, even if it's training them how to cook, nurse wounded soldiers, etc
 

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Very true... many many are like that...

That's why I think the local gals should do NS as well, even if it's training them how to cook, nurse wounded soldiers, etc
I've always said that as well. Theseare very useful skills as well. We talk so much about doing CIP to learn not to take things for granted. But the best lesson is probably learned during NS.
 

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Very true... many many are like that...

That's why I think the local gals should do NS as well, even if it's training them how to cook, nurse wounded soldiers, etc
but... who will carry their backpacks :bsmilie:
 

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I remember some conversations some friends once had...

If you ask a Filipino who the best women in Asia are, he will say Filipinas are.
If you ask an Indonesian who the best women in Asia are, he will say Indonesians are.
If you ask a Thai who the best women in Asia are, he will say Thais are.
If you ask a Viet who the best women in Asia are, he will say Vietnamese are.
If you ask a Singaporean who the best women in Asia are, he will say Filipinas, Indonesians, Thais and Viets are.


If you ask a SG gal what she wants in a boyfiend, she will say he should have a good career, be financially stable and well off, drive a car, live in a condo, etc.
If you ask any other gal what she wants in a bf, she will say he should be loving, honest, sweet, caring and family-oriented.


:think:
 

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If you ask any other gal what she wants in a bf, she will say he should be loving, honest, sweet, caring and family-oriented.

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Agreed. You would realise the older generation women saying that but rarely so among the younger ones. Another thing is, i felt nowadays, ladies are thinking a lot. When they have someone who treat them well, they will question how to know who is true love and etc. I know guys do that as well. But when both does it, spells trouble.
 

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Do Singaporean girlfriends behave like this? | Singapore Showbiz - Yahoo! Entertainment Singapore

To be fair, if many men like demure girls, some girls would want an obedient bf. Then again, in this world, there is no henpecked men, just men who respects their lady. Of course, everyone has limit, none of the comments brought up this point: taking respect for granted. The next episode will be this guy turning into a bad bf. Some bad guys started nice, but got turned nasty. Just because someone is willing to go so far for you, doesn't mean you necessarily need to let the person go that far. Just my views. ;)
I married 4 Singapore ladies.

They are all like that lah.

Next time I think I go Vietnam find.

:bsmilie:
 

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Of course this video is just a show and it has over blown the situation. However, I do agree that Singaporean as a whole are not that appreciative of their partners and environment. We took things for granted.

This could be due to the way we live. Always about material gain and $. We don't have life and we strive to earn more $ to pay for something that we didn't have time to enjoy. Maybe out there, many save $ to buy the best camera body and lens but never get a chance to use them as often too. I have only weekends and holidays, if the weekend is preoccupied with some family or other matters, then I skip.

So, there is only 52 weekends a year. we don't have winter or summer breaks. Most leave home before 7 am and only get back after 8 pm. Weekdays are for working only. That is why now our government want to help and give us back work life balance we used to have in the 50-70s. everyone must go home by 5 pm sharp, hurray!
 

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