Is this wrong ?


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manx

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Is it wrong to tell a girl, that you love her, both knowing that in another 4,5mths you have to leave SG for at least 3-4yrs?

Or is it better to just follow your heart and make these few months the most memorable time of both's life?
 

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Is it wrong to tell a girl, that you love her, both knowing that in another 4,5mths you have to leave SG for at least 3-4yrs?

Or is it better to just follow your heart and make these few months the most memorable time of both's life?
Tell her.
 

bahibo

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Tell her. Even one minute u also have to treasure. U never know what will happen tomorrow.
 

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So what if it is 3-4 years. I was in a long distance relationship for many years and we are now happily married.

At least you won't regret the 'what ifs' in future.
 

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Yes, please tell her.

Life is too short for regrets, these 4-5 mths may have a lasting impact for the rest of your lives.

All the Best!!! :thumbsup:
 

manx

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But we're both young, as we go out to the world, we'll meet more people, very likely our thoughts and heart will have already changed over those few years.
 

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Is it wrong to tell a girl, that you love her, both knowing that in another 4,5mths you have to leave SG for at least 3-4yrs?

Or is it better to just follow your heart and make these few months the most memorable time of both's life?

Tell her. :thumbsup:

At least you will know she rejected you! :devil:
 

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But this is part of every relationship isn't it ?
are you ready to commit? in your previous posts, you don't seem to be. spare a thought for the girl you apparently "love".

continue as friends for now, and see how things work out. take things slow and easy.
 

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But we're both young, as we go out to the world, we'll meet more people, very likely our thoughts and heart will have already changed over those few years.
haha... sounds like you are going overseas to study Undergrad...

Your head tells u that your relationship wun hold out....
Your heart tells u that you like her alot...

Ultimately... do you want to listen to your heart or head? And do you think that
4-5mths relationship is fair to the lady? That you have to decide for yourself.... haha...
All the best!!
 

Lolrence

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Tell me. ;p :bsmilie:


Okok, we can't actually decide an answer for you, cause we don't even know all the details behind the both of you.

Maybe you can ask yourself this first? Does she feel the same for you? Will she be happier if you told her/not tell her?

If the both of you are meant to be together, distance won't keep the both of you apart for long. =)
 

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frankly speaking, TS, I am gonna hurt your feeling, so pardon me.
This is for your own good.

If u cannot even makeup your mind, how would u expect her to have any faith in you..
You dun even noe what will happen (lyou aid your direction/path?), and what u will able to promise her in the next 3-4years (@ overseas)..)

Worst, u dun noe whether u want her to wait for you...OMG.!

You must have consideration for her, time=youth!! ...it's 3-4 years, not 3-4 months.!!

If u like her, then follow your heart, stop think here think there...and set your path straight, tell her...and both of u (u and the gal) plan...

if you are unsure, forget it... dun waste her time...

...............Hope I am not too harsh, Hope it help..................................................

From a lady point of view.. (we dun like undecisivie guy!) :rolleyes:
 

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