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Is it normal to feel this way?


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Mystix

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whenever ur gf or someone special is in a bad mood or feeling down, u juz cant stand seeing them being like that and u feel bad also and it affects ur concentration coz u keep thinking about it?
 

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i think it's better that if one is down the other should be cheerful and perk the downer up.

but of course sometimes u just can't help how u feel, but i just can't imagine my gf coming home crying becos her boss was so demanding (sales job??) and i sat there and moped with her becos i felt bad that she felt bad.

i'd probably force her to bake cookies with me so that i can put flour on her nose while she unsuccessfully tries to run away from me? :lovegrin: :D

u get the idea lar.. ;)
 

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That's why cameras exists, they don't throw temper, if they breakdown, CP is always willing to offer you suggestions for replacements and even more features...

OK, enough of OT & jokes.

You're perfectly normal lah, if your SO is not feeling too good neither would you, after all you're all bonded by the same feelings... :)
 

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Mystix said:
whenever ur gf or someone special is in a bad mood or feeling down, u juz cant stand seeing them being like that and u feel bad also and it affects ur concentration coz u keep thinking about it?
yes

(the above reply is less than 10 letters, hence this utterly useless waste of words.)
 

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In depends on whether there is an emotion "leader" in the relationship. if the guy is an emotion "leader", he wont feel it. in fact, he's probably the comforter to the female & vice versa. if he's in a bad mood, then usually the gal try to avoid him coz she feels unable to help/manage. Usually, couples with an obvious "leader" tend to form relationship tht last longer. :p
 

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thx 4 all e replies.
wah shadus u sound very pro leh.. heheh u got psychiatric training izit.
 

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Mystix said:
whenever ur gf or someone special is in a bad mood or feeling down, u juz cant stand seeing them being like that and u feel bad also and it affects ur concentration coz u keep thinking about it?
Hi,
Here's another question to think about.

On a situation like this, would you agree that the women are more emotional and prone to take things more personal than the men? Or do the men feel the same way also?

Regards,
-Michelle- :D
 

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Mystix said:
thx 4 all e replies.
wah shadus u sound very pro leh.. heheh u got psychiatric training izit.
Call it.. experience..
 

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mich_2103 said:
Hi,
Here's another question to think about.

On a situation like this, would you agree that the women are more emotional and prone to take things more personal than the men? Or do the men feel the same way also?

Regards,
-Michelle- :D
Well..... in general, maybe yes. But "man" nowadays tend to be more emotional (for unknown reasons) compared to the older generation. :bsmilie:
 

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Mystix said:
whenever ur gf or someone special is in a bad mood or feeling down, u juz cant stand seeing them being like that and u feel bad also and it affects ur concentration coz u keep thinking about it?
all the time my fren, all the time.
 

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Mystix said:
whenever ur gf or someone special is in a bad mood or feeling down, u juz cant stand seeing them being like that and u feel bad also and it affects ur concentration coz u keep thinking about it?
yeah
or even.. sometimes i get more TU LEN if they Bin Chow Chow whole day.. wah liew... ask them wat happen.. dun wan to say,.. how to help? :dunno: :cry:
 

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Shadus said:
Well..... in general, maybe yes. But "man" nowadays tend to be more emotional (for unknown reasons) compared to the older generation. :bsmilie:
ya esp when it comes to their mothers & family members & they can't take things less personally. :devil:
 

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Mystix said:
whenever ur gf or someone special is in a bad mood or feeling down, u juz cant stand seeing them being like that and u feel bad also and it affects ur concentration coz u keep thinking about it?
That's what a camera is for. It helps you forget about this sort of thing.
 

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jOhO said:
i think it's better that if one is down the other should be cheerful and perk the downer up.

but of course sometimes u just can't help how u feel, but i just can't imagine my gf coming home crying becos her boss was so demanding (sales job??) and i sat there and moped with her becos i felt bad that she felt bad.

i'd probably force her to bake cookies with me so that i can put flour on her nose while she unsuccessfully tries to run away from me? :lovegrin: :D

u get the idea lar.. ;)
In another words....get her moods up lah :)

I will try not to let it affect me...but then, I think I will still get affected somehow bah
 

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