ppl could find out my decision if they tap my ifone..
when i am presented to a multiple choice decision, i whip out my watch.. look at the second hand.. take the number and modulate by the number of choices.. :think: nobody can tap my decision.. because they cant possibly sync with my watch..
Not wanting to make any decision for the time being until some time later, is also one of the possible decisions that you can make. It is a valid choice.
When thinking of the decision to make, listen to your instinct which is immeasurably wise.
Knowing you have this problem is a start. Deciding to change is another. Maybe start making more decisive decisions - people can change. I am a very different person from what I was when I was a younger; more assertive, direct, less sensitive about what others think. You just have to decide that you are going to change, practise, practise, practise, i.e. make decisions all the time, and soon it'll be natural.