How do we forgive when were angry and hurt?
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i don't really forgive but i remember the bad experience so as not to make the same mistake in the future.
mostly importantly, is to watch out for the tell-tale signs before the same thing happen again...
Not that I know of, but the gurus said that the Almighty
has...planted eternity in the human heart. Man was created
not to exist for a day only. ;p
"No, no, man was made for immortality".
- Abraham Lincoln
Do yourself a favour... Get yourself some tattoo(s)... this way you can forgive but not forget!
Tattoo(s) are not only appreciated as a body art but also something that is/are inked permanently onto our skins to remember something emotional in our heart and mind, and will be with us till the day we die.
On the other hand, Buddha advised us to learn to let go. And Jesus Christ is my hero...
Sympathy for the devil.
Tattoo(s) are not only appreciated as a body art but also something that is/are inked permanently onto our skins to remember something emotional in our heart and mind, and will be with us till the day we die.
On the other hand, Buddha advised us to learn to let go. And Jesus Christ is my hero...
Sympathy for the devil.
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what goes around, comes around.
what comes around, goes around.
so buddy, don't fred, god reward the kind one
I like that. :thumbsup: Somehow all the "kindness" campaign did not
mentioned about rewarding, wonder why?
Strangely enough someone like Billy Zeoli once told us
that the Almighty has a big eraser. Though we cannot
change the past and neither does forgiveness, however
Paul Boese feels that forgiveness does enlarge the
future. How true is it?
Buddha teach us to forgive, but he did not say forget. In fact he say learn from mistake. You cannot learn from mistake if you forget.
Jesus say if someone slap you on the left face, you give your right face. (or may be the other way around).
May be not exact word as in the bible. So sorry I forced to learn that only from primary school to just before University, blame my parents sending me to private school.
The Bible says:
(Luke 6.29,30)
(38) You know that you have been taught, "An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth." (39) But I (Jesus) tell you not to try to get even with a person who has done something to you. When someone slaps your right cheek, turn and let that person slap your other cheek. (40) If someone sues you for your shirt, give up your coat as well. (41) If a soldier forces you to carry his pack one mile, carry it two miles. (42) When people ask you for something, give it to them. When they want to borrow money, lend it to them.
(Luke 6.27,28,32-36)
(43) You have heard people say, "Love your neighbors and hate your enemies." (44) But I tell you to love your enemies and pray for anyone who mistreats you. (45) Then you will be acting like your Father in heaven. He makes the sun rise on both good and bad people. And he sends rain for the ones who do right and for the ones who do wrong. (46) If you love only those people who love you, will God reward you for that? Even tax collectors love their friends. (47) If you greet only your friends, what's so great about that? Don't even unbelievers do that? (48) But you must always act like your Father in heaven.
(Luke 6.29,30)
(38) You know that you have been taught, "An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth." (39) But I (Jesus) tell you not to try to get even with a person who has done something to you. When someone slaps your right cheek, turn and let that person slap your other cheek. (40) If someone sues you for your shirt, give up your coat as well. (41) If a soldier forces you to carry his pack one mile, carry it two miles. (42) When people ask you for something, give it to them. When they want to borrow money, lend it to them.
(Luke 6.27,28,32-36)
(43) You have heard people say, "Love your neighbors and hate your enemies." (44) But I tell you to love your enemies and pray for anyone who mistreats you. (45) Then you will be acting like your Father in heaven. He makes the sun rise on both good and bad people. And he sends rain for the ones who do right and for the ones who do wrong. (46) If you love only those people who love you, will God reward you for that? Even tax collectors love their friends. (47) If you greet only your friends, what's so great about that? Don't even unbelievers do that? (48) But you must always act like your Father in heaven.
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sorry, what is the teaching behind this phase?
my christian fren doesn't seem to be preaching that leh. he refused to lent me $$$.
sorry, what is the teaching behind this phase?
my christian fren doesn't seem to be preaching that leh. he refused to lent me $$$.
Did you find peace inside?
And all individuals are different from one another.
Your friends eat fish while some others do not.
You have a chance to pay attention to what's
happening inside rather than outside.
"All spiritual disciplines are done with a view to still the mind.
The perfectly still mind is universal spirit."
-- Swami Ramdas
As one begins to witness oneself in personality,
one also begin to experience one's soul.
sorry, what is the teaching behind this phase?
my christian fren doesn't seem to be preaching that leh. he refused to lent me $$$.
What is life then when you are shaping your life through your thoughts?
Very often we don't see things as they are, we see them as we are, noted
by Anais Nin.
How do you see things? Perhaps you will discover many different answers
to that question. Not to put clever intelligence into life metaphor is a waste.
Life is sometimes a carousel, we have to adapt.
:bsmilie:
That is why those people can forget and self forgive easily. Bec they cannot even remember the simple rules of CS. :bsmilie:
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