slaam said:
I think sooner or later I will be like taxi driver uncle like that..COMPLAIN everyday that life is not treating me well. complain gahmen complain sg
rain also complain biz bad sunny and hot complain uncomfortable.
got customer complain customer bad attitude
no customer complain too many taxi...
People complain sometimes for want of effective change. However
more often than not those who do this often lack appreciation of what
has been given to them.... the life, the surroundings, standard of
living etc.
In CS, it is a good sign when more members comes on board to
participate in discussions not aiming that all discussion could be a
waste of one's time. One will die if one cannot express himself.
Like what had be said about judging people, events, things that
were done, so is the judging of what and how people want to
express. Certainly we have to give a thumb up for those who
are here for some fun and sharing their thoughts.
"We know the power of thoughts to create. Consider, then, the impact of our judgments. When we judge someone critically, those judgments have the power to affect the one being judged, if they are open to our perceptions. This is the case even when we dont say what were thinking.
For example, if I judge someone to be fat, and that individual perceives him or herself to be fat and is sensitive to the opinions of others, my thoughts will reinforce their fat experience.
Being aware of the impact of our judgments helps us let go of our tendency to judge.
There are three kinds of violence: one, through our deeds; two, through our words; and three, through our thoughts.
The root of all violence is in the world of thoughts, and that is why training the mind is so important.
-- Eknath Easwaran