Heh.... oooh.... dangerous topic !
Anyways, I'd recommend that you do the following :-
1. Rationalise the need for a DSLR vs a bridge camera (aka Prosumer)
2. Work out a budget for the camera or body and lens
3. Go into the various shops with a thick layer of skin and ask to manhandle all the models you shortlisted :
4. Make sure u caress :devil:, stroke, press, poke, open, spread, rub, carry, twist, fiddle, molest the cameras and see which one screams "GET UR HANDS OFF ME" and which one oozes "COME GET ME!:heart:".
5. Sleep on the thought for a week.
6. Repeat step 4 one more time.
7. If the camera says the same in a consistent tone "COME GET ME!:heart:", you know you've got a WINNER ! :lovegrin:
Haaha......
Disclaimer : I am talking about cameras only hor. Anything happens to you, not my fault aye ? ;p