Erm..yes. I think I have asked a stupid question. I guess the onli solution is to use filters and photoshop.
no, this is not a stupid question. there are far worse ones than a query from someone new to photography about exposure - it is easy, yet hard to understand. the thing is, there is no one-size-fits-all sure fire solution for anything. there are quite a number of ways to do anything - i simply suggested my way.
but more on technicalities - you have to absolutely accept the fact that all digital sensors (and even film) are not quite as adaptable as the human eye. when you look at a sunset, even if you look directly at the sun (not advisable, just illustrating a point), you are able to see the areas around it in shadow. yes?
this is the concept of dynamic range - the "brightest point" which you can see compared to the "darkest point". the tolerance of the human eye to what is bright compared to what is dark is a lot better than a digital sensor. whatever you shoot, will not turn out like what your eye sees at all. if you shoot a building with the sun shining behind, your EYE can see it. your camera WILL NOT. you will get one out of three options -
a) underexposure (more on exposure later on). in layman terms, you get the sky nicely, but the building is all black (all in shadow)
b) overexposure. in layman terms, the building is nicely seen, you can see every detail in your photograph. but the sky is all white and has no detail, none of the blue you see with your eye is there, let alone the clouds.
c) correct exposure. you get to see a bit of the building detail, while keeping what you see in the sky.
exposure is a very subjective thing. when it comes to exposure, you have three parameters in your camera that you can VARY. there is no magic setting to dial in and just expect the result to be right, as the light conditions vary everytime. basically, when you depress the shutter, to put it simply, three things are predetermined by what you decide or sometimes, what the camera decides, depending on the mode you shoot in. once you depress the shutter button, simultaneously, the shutter flips up to allow light to hit the digital sensor in your camera, the sensor starts operating, and in your lens, aperture blades close to form the right sized hole. in detail, these three parameters previously mentioned are:
i) f-stop or aperture size. this is basically the size of the hole in your lens that lets light through when the shutter opens up in your camera. this also has something to do with depth of field - sulhan's notes will have something on this, read them if you have the time. note that f-stop number on your camera screen is inversely proportional to aperture size. the bigger the f-stop number, the smaller the hole, and vice versa.
ii) shutter speed. this is how long your shutter is open for. also has something to do with the amount of "motion" in your picture.
iii) iso. this is how sensitive your sensor will be to light when it operates. this has something to do with the amount of noise you get - noise can be desirable too.
using an analogy, a PROPERLY EXPOSED photograph is like a pail of water you have to fill. the unit of this water is light. the camera is a hose. the aperture size is the diameter of the hose. the shutter speed is how long the hose is turned on for. the iso is the speed of the water flowing out from the hose. this should help you remember how each parameter affects the other. for example, if you make the diameter of your hose smaller (smaller aperture size) you can EITHER turn on the hose for a longer period of time (longer shutter speed) or increase the speed of water in the hose (higher iso), OR BOTH.
when you overexpose a picture, your pail of water has overflowed. this is not good, since your water is lost and cannot be retrieved. this is actually quite true for overexposure in digital photography - details are harder to retrieve.
when you underexpose a picture, your pail of water is not sufficiently filled. this is not good, but not as bad because you can use photoshop and various programs to "fill up the water". this will come to you when you shoot and experiment more.
you can CHOOSE to underexpose a picture deliberately, or overexpose a picture deliberately - it is alright so long as you INTENDED for this.
so that was a concentrated writeup on exposure - i'm not sure if you understand it, but i hope you do. without shooting you will never be able to get the idea - with shooting and active thinking while shooting these will become a part of you and you will no longer need to think eventually.
now back to your landscape with sky. taking what was written about exposure there, along with the fact that a digital sensor is not as versatile as the human eye; the camera cannot handle all parts of the photo due to the different amounts of light coming from each area. think of a photo as many small pails of water, but ultimately remember that light is not formed in the camera itself, it is formed outside of the camera. so while light from the sky hitting your sensor is coming in a lot faster because the sky is brighter, light from your foreground, which is DARKER, will come in a lot slower. hence you will either not fill up your "foreground pails" or make your background (sky) pails "overflow".
this is where a graduated neutral density filter comes in. it "controls" the flow of light from the sky by adding a layer of darkness across the sky.
you can see the effect here, taken from the singh ray website:
left is without, right is with.
alternatively, hdr is a process where you take a number of shots where each one is exposed differently, and merges it digitally using computer programming. note that you can do this YOURSELF, and this would be better than any program out there that does it for you, but is very very time consuming and requires a good understanding of photoshop and processing technique.
this is what an automatic process would look like, to give you an idea or what the program does and what it involves doing. cheers.