persistent wooer...help!


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Hope your clouds will be cleared after you have done so many things.

May your "white horse" come soon to pick you up. Cheers :D

Eh......so many pages of nonsense.

I doubt the so called "pai mah" will come so soon........maybe the next century.:sticktong
 

Keep holding out for that bai ma and you might just miss out on something good that might be right under your nose...not saying this nut is it though...seems like this thread is losing its momentum...
 

ya.i'll seriously consider it.
thanks.

Do let us know the outcome of it .. mann... pain for the time being .. There has to be something more drastic to be done. This world is already not a very nice place to be in . Ur world doesnt have to be worse becos of him.. sigh.. please . dun wait liao.. give him a good one and hopefully he listen or other wise ask ur boss for a favour to direct a no nousense warning to him. 6mth probation or something like that.. and the boss hears another complaint. police report is the next neccessary thing to do .. Personal protection order .. u heard of this .. ?
 

Jeanie Dearest,

Don't wait too long for your prince charming to come ...
When age catches up with you, you'll be the SDU (single, desperate & ugly) doing all the harassing instead.

I know because it happened to me (not one but two SDUs).
It reached a point I can't take it anymore so I informed my boss (cc HR) in writing citing that I just cannot concentrate on my work without them giving me any personal space.

Eventually the ladies stopped and now they dare not even look at me anymore.

Sheesh!

Not only guys, but gals can be thick-skinned too.

I'm sure they were also waiting for their prince charming to come, playing hard-to-get etc. when they were your age !!!
 

Eh......so many pages of nonsense.

I doubt the so called "pai mah" will come so soon........maybe the next century.:sticktong

Next century....:bsmilie: We won't be here liao. Maybe by then, she will post one more thread..... "Should i accept him becos....."
 

Aunty Ice says:

When you have your chat with the guy - he might apologise and ask if you can be friends. If you do not want his obsessive behaviour then do not even say maybe to a possible friendship.

He would only see that as you leaving the door open.

Due to his inappropriate behaviour, the only relationship you want with him is a professional business relationship where you are work colleagues and nothing more. Set some rules about what would be okay and what would not.

Portraits of Nature - sounds like the chicks are looking for a toy boy!...guess you fit their criteria :bsmilie:

Good luck Jeanie and keep being strong
 

Jeanie Dearest,

Don't wait too long for your prince charming to come ...
When age catches up with you, you'll be the SDU (single, desperate & ugly) doing all the harassing instead.

I know because it happened to me (not one but two SDUs).
It reached a point I can't take it anymore so I informed my boss (cc HR) in writing citing that I just cannot concentrate on my work without them giving me any personal space.

Eventually the ladies stopped and now they dare not even look at me anymore.

Sheesh!

Not only guys, but gals can be thick-skinned too.

I'm sure they were also waiting for their prince charming to come, playing hard-to-get etc. when they were your age !!!


Brad Pitt is that you? :bsmilie: just kidding! ;p

Good advice man! But the example... :think:
 

Jeanie Dearest,

Don't wait too long for your prince charming to come ...
When age catches up with you, you'll be the SDU (single, desperate & ugly) doing all the harassing instead.

I know because it happened to me (not one but two SDUs).
It reached a point I can't take it anymore so I informed my boss (cc HR) in writing citing that I just cannot concentrate on my work without them giving me any personal space.

Eventually the ladies stopped and now they dare not even look at me anymore.

Sheesh!

Not only guys, but gals can be thick-skinned too.

I'm sure they were also waiting for their prince charming to come, playing hard-to-get etc. when they were your age !!!

haha... they want someone like looking for the best bargain ! the best deal in town ! :sticktong
 

i dunno hu is this person as i'm very new here.. however i find that the problems lies with herself.. solutions given yt she dun accept it. she dun accept it why ask for solution... if dun wan, den bear with the nonsense of the guys.
i'm not so 'lucky' to have guys so persistent.. but sum guys juz need to use the hard way...:cry:
 

i dunno hu is this person as i'm very new here.. however i find that the problems lies with herself.. solutions given yt she dun accept it. she dun accept it why ask for solution... if dun wan, den bear with the nonsense of the guys.
i'm not so 'lucky' to have guys so persistent.. but sum guys juz need to use the hard way...:cry:

Thats jeanie... queen of creating threads which spans many replies yet... no solution...

anybody hear NATO?
 

i dunno hu is this person as i'm very new here.. however i find that the problems lies with herself.. solutions given yt she dun accept it. she dun accept it why ask for solution... if dun wan, den bear with the nonsense of the guys.
i'm not so 'lucky' to have guys so persistent.. but sum guys juz need to use the hard way...:cry:

Not sure if u read thru all the post. She has tried some solution suggested by us already and some suggestions is really nonsence.
 

Not sure if u read thru all the post. She has tried some solution suggested by us already and some suggestions is really nonsence.

of coz not telling pple that she is a les or sumthing... but many other solutions can be use.. getting sumone to pose as a bf wld be good.. ask the guy n the 'boyfriend' out sum scene that can make the guy back off...

hmm...
 

of coz not telling pple that she is a les or sumthing... but many other solutions can be use.. getting sumone to pose as a bf wld be good.. ask the guy n the 'boyfriend' out sum scene that can make the guy back off...

hmm...
My dear sister, do not underestimate our Jeanie queenie here ..... if she can keep all the CS bauya from getting an inch closer to her, as well as keeping them entertained without even showing her head, it would be very silly to think for a moment that she can't handle a single infatuated little birdie ....:bsmilie::sweatsm:
 

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