Are you ok with "gender bending"? Do you feel comfortable with people who are not too direct with you on their gender? What are the possible motives for people who are not too truthful with their gender when they are surfing "friendly' sites, like CS? Do you think honesty is important here?
Would you feel betray if SION turns out to be a Jean, or if Jean turns out to be a SION?
DO you think it's a Jane or a John?