To put it in a crude manner, haven girls been feeding/leeching off their bfs and husbands for eons?
I mean when u decide to be with the guy and for marriage etc, building a family is more important than arguing who should be the bread winner right? Taking care of family doesnt = to shake leg at home. Everyone has a role to play in the family, and it doesnt mean that if he doesnt bring home $$$$ = he is doing nothing.
Actually, Jeanie I have one very very important question for you. IF lets say when ur future husband retires, and he wants to use the million dollars + savings to setup his own business, then at the end of the day he fails and lost his whole investment, what would you do and how would you respond? [This might be a hypothetical question, but personally I have known ppl who ended up in this state]
And because its very hard for him to find a job, and there is no suitable DXO job for him, would you take up the responsibility to support him through these tough times?