Results 1 to 20 of 20

Thread: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

  1. #1

    Default Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick


  2. #2
    Senior Member sinned79's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2009
    Location
    Singapore
    Posts
    10,849

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by Yappy View Post

  3. #3

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by sinned79 View Post
    he is saying if anyone is conducting adultery,please stop it now, else u will regret.


  4. #4

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by Yappy View Post
    unfortunately, this advice will fall on deaf ears.

    in the first place, if people start such things, they obviously have failed to see the consequences of their actions. and some even fool themselves into thinking that it is justified, citing excuses like "other half never show me enough attention". in the first place, if you did not bother to try and bring it to the other party's attention what the problem is..

  5. #5

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Why should we impose our values on others?

    Why shuld I get out?
    deadpoet
    my portfolio

  6. #6

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by Deadpoet View Post
    Why should we impose our values on others?

    Why shuld I get out?
    relax brother...

    advice only ... no one can force anyone to do anything..



    i believe TS is doing out of good will


  7. #7

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by Deadpoet View Post
    Why should we impose our values on others?
    you can view it as a suggestion and advice.

    at the end of the day, we can only control ourselves. if all you have in response is "it's my choice", then you have a choice to murder, and then society has a choice to put you to death... you have a choice to kidnap a child and keep it as a sex slave, and society has the choice to punish you.

    your refutation amounts to circular logic. in the dark, we all know what is right and what is wrong - i'd like to believe that. and marriage, from a personal point of view, is a promise - a man who cannot keep his promises is not a man worth respecting. and this respect isn't from others, that's not important in life. it's about how you can look in the mirror every morning.
    Last edited by night86mare; 23rd July 2010 at 02:09 PM.

  8. #8
    Member
    Join Date
    May 2006
    Location
    Bishan
    Posts
    133

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    For a moment I told you meant the Stock Market.

    Canon 1D mk3/ 16-35L II/ 35L / 135L / 85 f1.8/ 580EX II / Canon G11

  9. #9

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by sfoto100 View Post
    relax brother...

    advice only ... no one can force anyone to do anything..



    i believe TS is doing out of good will

    Good will or not, it is not our right to impose our values and believes.

    Let's set aside the murderers and the kidnappers, that muddles the water.

    If a person decide to get involve in an affair, that is his or her choice. He or she must then pay for the consequences. But still, it's their choice.

    Btw, why are we so sure, it's his fault and not hers?
    deadpoet
    my portfolio

  10. #10

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by Deadpoet View Post
    Good will or not, it is not our right to impose our values and believes.
    A says: we must do this.

    B says: it is not our right to impose our values and beliefs

    do you notice that B is actually attempting to impose his belief that it is not our right to impose our values and beliefs on others?

    i think, let's introduce C, the one who remains silent - he's the one who really believes that.

    also, kidnapping and murder are also potentially morally grey areas - why shouldn't we extend the statement to these as well?
    Last edited by night86mare; 23rd July 2010 at 02:21 PM.

  11. #11

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by Deadpoet View Post
    Good will or not, it is not our right to impose our values and believes.

    Let's set aside the murderers and the kidnappers, that muddles the water.

    If a person decide to get involve in an affair, that is his or her choice. He or she must then pay for the consequences. But still, it's their choice.

    Btw, why are we so sure, it's his fault and not hers?
    hi

    first of all, i don't think TS is imposing anything, because he just post a link and an sentence of advice.

    it is just like any other post in CS... advice to benefit others...

    secondly, imho, if my wife cheat on me, that's her problem. i believe in karma, and she will have to bear the consequence of her action.

    The main negative effect of adultery is that it break family up... and it is bad especially one has children. So if there are no such effects, then maybe it is not so bad... but i am very very afriad of karma!



    a friendly discussion brother...

  12. #12

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by sfoto100 View Post

    secondly, imho, if my wife cheat on me, that's her problem. i believe in karma, and she will have to bear the consequence of her action.
    i think i won't bother believing in karma - it's just a soft-touch approach to console ourselves that bad people get punish and the good guys always win. that is only a constant truth in fairytales. not even movies have a good ending all the time where good begets good, and bad begets bad.

    let's face the reality - that karma doesn't actually matter. what matters is yourself, and what you do with yourself.

  13. #13

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by night86mare View Post
    i think i won't bother believing in karma - it's just a soft-touch approach to console ourselves that bad people get punish and the good guys always win. that is only a constant truth in fairytales. not even movies have a good ending all the time where good begets good, and bad begets bad.

    let's face the reality - that karma doesn't actually matter. what matters is yourself, and what you do with yourself.
    to those who believe , karma matters. if u look at only one lifetime, u will think why some do bad but got good in return... but we need to look further - future lives...

  14. #14

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by sfoto100 View Post
    to those who believe , karma matters. if u look at only one lifetime, u will think why some do bad but got good in return... but we need to look further - future lives...
    well, other than that, another issue with karma is the logic behind it. i believe that one should do good things, and avoid doing bad things, not because one is scared of retribution and karma. or fire and brimstone, or getting your tongue cut out, or being reborn as a fly.

    you should be a good person because it is simply put - better.

  15. #15

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by night86mare View Post
    well, other than that, another issue with karma is the logic behind it. i believe that one should do good things, and avoid doing bad things, not because one is scared of retribution and karma. or fire and brimstone, or getting your tongue cut out, or being reborn as a fly.

    you should be a good person because it is simply put - better.
    i really rejoice in your way of thinking. it is very good.

    i can discuss more with u if we ever meet. and of course if u r interested... karma is a big topic ... and very subtle...


  16. #16
    Member
    Join Date
    Dec 2005
    Location
    Singapore, Bedok
    Posts
    1,129

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by Paranoid View Post
    For a moment I told you meant the Stock Market.

    +1

    Kena conned.....

  17. #17
    Member
    Join Date
    Dec 2005
    Location
    Singapore, Bedok
    Posts
    1,129

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by sfoto100 View Post
    i can discuss more with u if we ever meet. and of course if u r interested... karma is a big topic ... and very subtle...

    If you wanna meet him you've have to expose first..

    Juz stalk the expsoure thread.. you'll get your chance

  18. #18
    Senior Member Sion's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2004
    Location
    新天地
    Posts
    4,768

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by Yappy View Post
    Outside is better than inside.

    Outside is guilt-free, the air is pure and your heart is clear.

  19. #19

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by Deadpoet View Post
    Why should we impose our values on others?

    Why shuld I get out?
    Your choice. You decide!

  20. #20

    Default Re: Your choice...If you are in Get OUT quick

    Quote Originally Posted by night86mare View Post
    well, other than that, another issue with karma is the logic behind it. i believe that one should do good things, and avoid doing bad things, not because one is scared of retribution and karma. or fire and brimstone, or getting your tongue cut out, or being reborn as a fly.

    you should be a good person because it is simply put - better.
    U are right!

    U bought a lucky draw ticket for charity and it states that you may win $$$

    Do you pay for the $$$$$ and

    Do you check the number against the draw result?

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •