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    make some time for her and ask her out for a date, just like old times
    do it spontaneously. buy some flowers, give her a sensual massage
    send her sms during the day and most importantly talk

    communication is most important

    of course if you cannot do the above, a fat diamond will also do the trick

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    i can't afford diamonds.

    but i find poetry works well too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ggodetucsamoht View Post
    Just curious to find out how do you guys tackle the situation when your wife mood swing or suddenly showing you attitude for no reason?

    I consider such act as childish and "act cute" behaviour and sometime my methods of ignoring her tends to fail so keen to find out if any body have more brilliant ways of stopping the nonsense from the girls.
    This is gender bias - It is not only girls have mood swing, guys have this too.

    I am sure you have discover "her mood swing" before you married her. You should ask yourself this question : Have I change my perception of her "mood swing" after all these years and improve on the situation thereafter (communication ?)?

    What should I do if I have to eat the same food everyday?
    1. Change my perception of the food
    2. Add more flavoring to the food
    3. Change the food totally (etc. do not eat and starve)

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    there is always Cubic zirconia. just don't buy one that is too big as it will be easily seen as too good to be true

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    Quote Originally Posted by catchlights View Post
    So, you have experience it?
    Those uncles are sure grouchy and moody when they are undergoing male menopause.

    Quote Originally Posted by catchlights View Post
    To TS,

    Three words..

    Tender, Loving, Care.

    is all your need to do.

    The 3 Golden words:

    1) I' m sorry
    2) It's my fault
    3) I promise it won't happen again.
    Last edited by Pearlang; 16th April 2009 at 09:20 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pearlang View Post
    The 3 Golden words:
    1) I' m sorry
    I just could not resist:
    - upgrading the new body
    - buying a new lense
    - buying a new camera bag

    Quote Originally Posted by Pearlang View Post
    2) It's my fault
    I forgot to put the lense into drybox and fungus grows on it

    Quote Originally Posted by Pearlang View Post
    3) I promise it won't happen again.
    but I cannot promise that I will keep the promise.

    LOL
    Last edited by aryanto; 16th April 2009 at 09:31 AM.

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    Through some experience, I'd say you should show her some TLC = tender loving care. She'll swing back to her usual self and she may or may not admit her mood swings, but just close one eye. Take it or leave it, that's all.

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    I find that there is always a high tendency that it is due to that time of the month when the auntie comes along. Men always get into trouble for no apparent reason around this time. It's just mother nature and the circle of life.

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    if all else fails, use retail therapy...

    buy yourself a new toy and you will forget all about her mood swings

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    Just remember... when you ask what's wrong and she says "nothing", you *know* it's something. Rather than bug her further, wait a couple minutes, then simply tell her that you want to talk about what it was so that you know what's upsetting her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ortega View Post
    make some time for her and ask her out for a date, just like old times
    do it spontaneously. buy some flowers, give her a sensual massage
    send her sms during the day and most importantly talk

    communication is most important


    So far this answer is the one closest to what I recommend.

    ../azul123

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    for a happy marriage life,
    couples should...

    Open both eyes to each other during courtship
    Close one eye to each other after married.
    Close both eyes to each other if you want to live together for life.

    but most couple do things the other way round, so that how's many problems arises after married.
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    Women - sigh... can't live with them, can't live without them.
    Pictures always should have a special story behind it or a special meaning to the photographer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ortega View Post
    if all else fails, use retail therapy...

    buy yourself a new toy and you will forget all about her mood swings

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitkat View Post
    This is gender bias - It is not only girls have mood swing, guys have this too.

    I am sure you have discover "her mood swing" before you married her. You should ask yourself this question : Have I change my perception of her "mood swing" after all these years and improve on the situation thereafter (communication ?)?

    What should I do if I have to eat the same food everyday?
    1. Change my perception of the food
    2. Add more flavoring to the food
    3. Change the food totally (etc. do not eat and starve)
    Dont complaint if she is your wife already....

    Just said...Yummy Yummy and Yummy to all her food if not she will go on strike!

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    Quote Originally Posted by catchlights View Post
    for a happy marriage life,
    couples should...

    Open both eyes to each other during courtship
    Close one eye to each other after married.
    Close both eyes to each other if you want to live together for life.

    but most couple do things the other way round, so that how's many problems arises after married.
    U chase her like hell... and now you should precious her more as she is part of you! Do not close all the eyes as you will one day find another person in your bed!

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    Ask her nicely whats bothering her, sometimes you need to probe. It may be due to external reasons (work, family) or it might be due to you (your habits, attitude to her).

    Remember this four key words when dealing with close ones, whether spouse or bf/gf, COMMITTMENT, OPENNESS, SUPPORT and TRUST. Try to maintain these and you will have a healthy fulfilling relationship.
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    Aiya.. All she need is a good XXXX ... how long you never give her liao?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shoooters View Post
    Aiya.. All she need is a good XXXX ... how long you never give her liao?
    You try lah...if your spouse did the same thing you offer her a good XXXX see if she slaps you or not...
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    Quote Originally Posted by tkbonz View Post
    You try lah...if your spouse did the same thing you offer her a good XXXX see if she slaps you or not...
    if she slap you tell her that violence is not tolerated here and then give her an infraction

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