Beside I think CS is not exactly the best place to do that don't you think? Same as IT forum..the percentage of women to men here is pathetically lopp sided to men! heheheh.... but I guess you could use the threads to share "war stories" of love won or lost if that is the kind of male bonding you are looking for hahahahah....
u got a hole to lie, i just lie on the flat not that even ground. part of me is shaped by environment.
good guys dun win?
Ahhh - paw paw guys. There's a song here...."No woman no love"
Now what's a mother's love? Is it selfish? Me don't think so.
It is tolerate, patient, and kind. It is never envious, arrogant or proud.
Problem is once you get it....and you have it in your pocket...then other pursuits starts to come into the picture that you might want to pursuit them...would it be too late then? Or would that one pursuit you chase and got now...she only want you to concentrate on her or at least only with her, her family, her friends and the family you build with her. That is a balancing act that takes two to clap. If she don't clap...die. Thus ....I say..Love is Selfish. Not everything about love is good. History as shown that love is the answer to alot of problems but it is also the root cause to a lot of problems in the world too heheh...
So...as I said before... we have to lie in the hole we dug for ourselves. heheheh WE ARE THE DESTINY OF OUR LIFE heh...
Last edited by sammy888; 21st December 2008 at 11:57 PM.
Most mothers love their child and will protect that child forever and hence as an adult, mother still treats one as a child.
As for nurturing there are mothers who are good at nurturing and there are mothers who smother. There are stories on both sides of the coin.
Once a child equips themselves with the necessary experiences in life, break free!
However many adults cannot break free. One can be like a butterfly!