Wow! Itís been quite a while since any thread had such a high postings in such a short time, dividing between whatís right, what if and what not.
Letís be realistic about the situation that wedding photogs will be facing or are facing now. There would be more Uncle Bob and Cousin Joe, there are no stopping friends and relatives from joining the safari shoot.
Photogs need and must learn how to climb a peak to shoot the shot. Itís a real challenge, but itís a glamour that you choose (even if thereís none). What a way to make a living!