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    hi bros ,

    just wonder how u guys are able to maintain with your gf for years and even till marriage ,
    u know sumtimes there is like noting much to talk about , i find it hard to find a topic sometimes. will be is an awkard situation whereby there is nothing much to say..

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    what is this? is maintain a relationship with your gf so difficult?
    than how are you gonne maintain your marriage?
    courtship is just only a few years, marriage life can be thirty years to fifty sixty years.
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    If you have problem finding things to say, and this lasts for a significantly long time (ie not just the initial "shy" period), it tells you that you two are not suited for each other.

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    Always buy her gifts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sion View Post
    Always buy her gifts.
    Will you buy me some gifts?
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    Quote Originally Posted by entropy_h View Post
    Will you buy me some gifts?
    do you want a dead horse?

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    Quote Originally Posted by night86mare View Post
    do you want a dead horse?
    Yes please

    Together with her and the car she's in:

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    Quote Originally Posted by entropy_h View Post
    Together with her and the car she's in:
    cannot fit the dead horse into car

    so cannot give you all

    alternatively, you can have a dead horse in the flintstones car

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    so what if some one blur blur,

    give u a dead model and a live horse inside a sport car to you??
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    Quote Originally Posted by catchlights View Post
    so what if some one blur blur,

    give u a dead model and a live horse inside a sport car to you??
    well.. he can still make glue

    he still has something to play with

    and he still has the sports car

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    Quote Originally Posted by dommy View Post
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    Always make her feel like "The Curse of Golden Flower."

    Last edited by Sion; 6th September 2008 at 12:39 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by night86mare View Post
    cannot fit the dead horse into car

    so cannot give you all

    alternatively, you can have a dead horse in the flintstones car
    Dammit, why can't I have my cake and eat it too?
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    have a break from each other once in a while. =]

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    Quote Originally Posted by rEv09 View Post
    have a break from each other once in a while. =]
    quite true.. but dont forget to come back

    im approaching my 4th year relationship together. i see her almost EVERYDAY without fail. i sms and talk to her. i msn her.

    1) long relationship.. you must be committed first. you must ask yourself, do you see any future together ?

    2)sincerity is the most important. it takes 2 hands to clap. but must be sincere in the relationship and hide nothing from each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vince123123 View Post
    If you have problem finding things to say, and this lasts for a significantly long time (ie not just the initial "shy" period), it tells you that you two are not suited for each other.
    ya, think so too.
    if basic talking is becoming more silent after the honeymoon period then, maybe you didn't know the girl well enough or vice versa.

    having a good amount of small talk is what keeps the relationship flowing, don't underestimate the importance of small talk.
    small talk enables you to hear along the lines for habits or interest you never thought your partner could have.

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    have enough moola.

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    Learn to enjoy each other's company and appreciate each other for the small things you do for each other...
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    Learn to give n take...
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    i think that if your relationship is losing its 'spark' then maybe they are not the right girl/guy.
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    buy her a dead horse, and beat it into glue together.

    you'll be surprised.

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