Hi Andreq, i have been reading this thread with interest(since i am a wedding photographer). From the initial sympathy for you, it has now really grown to a strong distaste for your frivoluous and inconsistent comments. It's little wonder the wedding professionals have refrained from replying to your posts. Honestly, i really do not have a slightest clue on the big deal to "senior member" to caring your situation? (i apologise to them in advance if the statement is disrespectful) So meaning a junior member who care doesn't count as much? And just because if the "senior members" command more respect in this forum and you have a stronger case to pursue?
Also, i know you have 10 years of experience in photography, so you can stop emphasizing on that point. I know you can wait for 24 hours or more to get that perfect sunset shot, and probably miss your flight, at the same time leaving your newly wedded wife alone in the plane. That is so noble for your photography passion. And i know you will demand to take group photos of your dear friends if the shot is not perfect(well i assume this is rare since you have 10 years of good photography experience). But honestly, how much do you know about wedding photography apart from being in your own wedding?
To the rest, sorry to bring this to a OT.