on the otherhand, we can empathise w him. it's quite painful to want someone so badly but unable to be accepted.
remain patience and i am sure your colleagues can see that it's lopsided. shouldn't have fear about misunderstanding in your workplace unless your knight in white horse could be lerking around in the same office.
in time to come you will find your bf and he will find his.
tell us the date/time/place, if we are available, we are most happy to turn up for the makan...
the idea of using an old man's like the russian communist psychological propaganda, that when they had to report badnews on TV, they will use and old man, filmed with a backdrop with a family photo on a shelf etc, so it looks like your granddad telling you things..
chezburgr i can haz?
i junked all of them IIRC.
cos i do not want the flowers to stain my leather seats.
but i cant recalled if i brought it home to junk or not.cos throw in office, very very obvious.and i find that very rude too.