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    Quote Originally Posted by LOTUSfairy View Post
    huh...i may over-towered over him....hehehe..(if he is shorter than 1.7m)..
    hmm, do i get a feeling i am reading it correctly?
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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    nope.not at all.

    when he first intro himself to me, he was such a gentleman...
    in fact, the impression he struck to me was really good.
    but as time goes by....


    ORTEGA:if you remember last year valentine, he was the one who gave me the flowers and i did ask you wat to do with it...remember?
    maybe then just ignore him...pretend he's not there. He say hello don't answer and keep walking etc...might give him a hint after awhile. otherwise worse case be prepared to file harassement complaint lor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by drakon09 View Post
    Anything for free makan... ANYTHING!!

    dont forget me!!!
    chezburgr i can haz?

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    Quote Originally Posted by LOTUSfairy View Post
    huh...i may over-towered over him....hehehe..(if he is shorter than 1.7m)..
    short mean easier for him to kick you in the nuts!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    i had been so frank and outright-spoken to him i cant even believe my own ears.

    i ever did tell him that even if he's the last man on earth, i will never ever see myself with him together.
    i swear i said that.

    after that i really felt VERY bad.i sort of saw his eyes got teary.
    oohh... then you just take it easy. no other easy choice. if not, you won't have to resort to this forum for answers.
    on the otherhand, we can empathise w him. it's quite painful to want someone so badly but unable to be accepted.
    remain patience and i am sure your colleagues can see that it's lopsided. shouldn't have fear about misunderstanding in your workplace unless your knight in white horse could be lerking around in the same office.

    in time to come you will find your bf and he will find his.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Del_CtrlnoAlt View Post
    u & ortega an item?
    what kind of item?

    i know, she know and you want to know

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    Quote Originally Posted by psychobiologist View Post
    prickly problem :P i've no decent solution i concur.

    the biggest challenge is to consider several sides of the issues, especially with him as a colleague, where harsh means are often inappropriate. cannot punch him, cannot kick him, cannot do anything that affect one's image in the office as well.. i.e. claim to be a les etc..

    sometimes one or two of my female friends would approach me with similar problems but not in a working context, but in school, almost the same scenario, but most of these times i would actually act as their "bouncer" or negotiator, and i would speak to those guys on their behalf on what actually is going on and where everything is going.

    get an older man (friend) to look him up and tell him that you are not interested in anything along those lines, and that he should leave you alone, at the same time you do not want to spoil the working relations as a colleague.

    something along the lines of :
    old man camping outside office after work and approach the guy as he is about to leave
    old man : hi, is this mr XXXxx
    xxxxx : yes i am.. you are?
    old man : i'm here to talk to you abt.. jeanie blahblahblahblah..she finds it hard to get things across from her position and i am here to clarify some issues with you and hopefully to seek a resolution over them. blahblahblahblah..
    what if it develops into a fight?i'm worried man...

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    tell us the date/time/place, if we are available, we are most happy to turn up for the makan...

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    Quote Originally Posted by ortega View Post
    i 2nd that yummy
    "Vegetarian" can go???

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    nope.not at all.

    when he first intro himself to me, he was such a gentleman...
    in fact, the impression he struck to me was really good.
    but as time goes by....


    ORTEGA:if you remember last year valentine, he was the one who gave me the flowers and i did ask you wat to do with it...remember?
    yes i remember... so what did you do with the flowers?

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    Quote Originally Posted by nikkie View Post
    oohh... then you just take it easy. no other easy choice. if not, you won't have to resort to this forum for answers.
    on the otherhand, we can empathise w him. it's quite painful to want someone so badly but unable to be accepted.

    have a good point there...kinda feel sorry for the guy actually...

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    Quote Originally Posted by LOTUSfairy View Post
    tell us the date/time/place, if we are available, we are most happy to turn up for the makan...

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    Quote Originally Posted by nikkie View Post
    in time to come you will find your bf and he will find his.
    After this episode, he just, just might find a BOYFRIEND...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Tupi Guy View Post
    "Vegetarian" can go???
    its like wedding dinner... they will have 1 table special for you...

    got few halal tables also...
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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    what if it develops into a fight?i'm worried man...
    depends on how diplomatic the whole thing goes. well.. you can get lotusfairy to go in place of the oldman though

    the idea of using an old man's like the russian communist psychological propaganda, that when they had to report badnews on TV, they will use and old man, filmed with a backdrop with a family photo on a shelf etc, so it looks like your granddad telling you things..
    chezburgr i can haz?

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    Quote Originally Posted by garou12 View Post
    kinda feel sorry for the guy actually...
    ya, but these thing can be forced. He should just let nature take course. Now, he has kill off his "chances"

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    Quote Originally Posted by ortega View Post
    yes i remember... so what did you do with the flowers?
    i had a few bouquets that day.you told me to bring home and shoot still life.

    i junked all of them IIRC.
    cos i do not want the flowers to stain my leather seats.

    but i cant recalled if i brought it home to junk or not.cos throw in office, very very obvious.and i find that very rude too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tupi Guy View Post
    ya, but these thing can be forced. He should just let nature take course.
    yea still pityful though...he's prob stuck in arrested development emotionally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by drakon09 View Post
    After this episode, he just, just might find a BOYFRIEND...

    then i introduce my gay friends to him...at least he not so chiam...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Del_CtrlnoAlt View Post
    its like wedding dinner... they will have 1 table special for you...

    got few halal tables also...
    then i will sitting alone...........

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