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    Default Re: persistent wooer...help!

    Quote Originally Posted by Del_CtrlnoAlt View Post
    should drop him off in the middle of singapore river while u can mah...
    with cement shoes?

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    prickly problem :P i've no decent solution i concur.

    the biggest challenge is to consider several sides of the issues, especially with him as a colleague, where harsh means are often inappropriate. cannot punch him, cannot kick him, cannot do anything that affect one's image in the office as well.. i.e. claim to be a les etc..

    sometimes one or two of my female friends would approach me with similar problems but not in a working context, but in school, almost the same scenario, but most of these times i would actually act as their "bouncer" or negotiator, and i would speak to those guys on their behalf on what actually is going on and where everything is going.

    get an older man (friend) to look him up and tell him that you are not interested in anything along those lines, and that he should leave you alone, at the same time you do not want to spoil the working relations as a colleague.

    something along the lines of :
    old man camping outside office after work and approach the guy as he is about to leave
    old man : hi, is this mr XXXxx
    xxxxx : yes i am.. you are?
    old man : i'm here to talk to you abt.. jeanie blahblahblahblah..she finds it hard to get things across from her position and i am here to clarify some issues with you and hopefully to seek a resolution over them. blahblahblahblah..
    chezburgr i can haz?

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    Quote Originally Posted by afbug View Post

    The best way to kill his interest is to get a real boyfriend.
    never never get one just for the sake of getting it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    please DCA.there r much prettier gals than me.
    i'm not even comparable to some of the models i've seen shot by some of you guys.

    and if he only likes me by the above attri you mentioned, then you think such relation will last?will develop?
    will last... til tomorrow morning my dear...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Del_CtrlnoAlt View Post
    will last... til tomorrow morning my dear...

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    c'mon jeanie count your blessings... some girls die as virgins..
    while some even dont feel loved...some dont even felt being pursued..

    cheers..

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    Quote Originally Posted by LOTUSfairy View Post
    Bring us along....we will eat up his own entire fortune.!!!

    Auntie LotuFairy will interrogate him until he runs away!
    You go yi shen xiang xu?

    i really is pei fu your yong qi...
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    Quote Originally Posted by ortega View Post
    go for the dinner date and ask if you could bring someone else along
    then all of CS will show up and take pictures of him
    wahahha!

    CS=cheapo sluts!


    ok lah.kidding lah guys.relac!

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    Quote Originally Posted by psychobiologist View Post
    prickly problem :P i've no decent solution i concur.

    the biggest challenge is to consider several sides of the issues, especially with him as a colleague, where harsh means are often inappropriate. cannot punch him, cannot kick him, cannot do anything that affect one's image in the office as well.. i.e. claim to be a les etc..

    sometimes one or two of my female friends would approach me with similar problems but not in a working context, but in school, almost the same scenario, but most of these times i would actually act as their "bouncer" or negotiator, and i would speak to those guys on their behalf on what actually is going on and where everything is going.

    get an older man (friend) to look him up and tell him that you are not interested in anything along those lines, and that he should leave you alone, at the same time you do not want to spoil the working relations as a colleague.

    something along the lines of :
    old man camping outside office after work and approach the guy as he is about to leave
    old man : hi, is this mr XXXxx
    xxxxx : yes i am.. you are?
    old man : i'm here to talk to you abt.. jeanie blahblahblahblah..she finds it hard to get things across from her position and i am here to clarify some issues with you and hopefully to seek a resolution over them. blahblahblahblah..
    problem with this solution is that it might make the guy go over the edge and start stalking her hardcore...

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    Quote Originally Posted by nikkie View Post
    eg. if he is 1.7, tell him you prefer guys 1.77m at least. unless it's tom cruise...
    if he is as young as you, tell him you prefer older guys, like george clooney.
    but don't bruise his ego also la.. enough to drive home the point but not to kill his hopes and dreams.
    Later he go for plastic surgery ah.......

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    Quote Originally Posted by peanutbeer View Post
    c'mon jeanie count your blessings... some girls die as virgins..
    while some even dont feel loved...some dont even felt being pursued..

    cheers..
    u counting the amount of ppl crawling below her or those dropping down from the sky?
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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    wahahha!

    CS=cheapo sluts!


    ok lah.kidding lah guys.relac!
    Anything for free makan... ANYTHING!!

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    in you ur pursuit of happiness, maybe put him in the last option lor..

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    Quote Originally Posted by garou12 View Post
    Aside from the office how much contact do you have with this weirdo? like do you have to work with him on projects etc?
    nope.not at all.

    when he first intro himself to me, he was such a gentleman...
    in fact, the impression he struck to me was really good.
    but as time goes by....


    ORTEGA:if you remember last year valentine, he was the one who gave me the flowers and i did ask you wat to do with it...remember?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Del_CtrlnoAlt View Post
    You go yi shen xiang xu?

    i really is pei fu your yong qi...
    huh...i may over-towered over him....hehehe..(if he is shorter than 1.7m)..

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    nope.not at all.

    when he first intro himself to me, he was such a gentleman...
    in fact, the impression he struck to me was really good.
    but as time goes by....


    ORTEGA:if you remember last year valentine, he was the one who gave me the flowers and i did ask you wat to do with it...remember?
    u & ortega an item?
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    Quote Originally Posted by LOTUSfairy View Post
    Bring us along....we will eat up his own entire fortune.!!!

    Auntie LotuFairy will interrogate him until he runs away!
    auntie?scarlee you younger than me then i what?ah ma?

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    Quote Originally Posted by drakon09 View Post
    Anything for free makan... ANYTHING!!
    i agree!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by drakon09 View Post
    Anything for free makan... ANYTHING!!
    i 2nd that yummy

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    Quote Originally Posted by peanutbeer View Post
    while some even dont feel loved...some dont even felt being pursued..

    cheers..
    Ok la.....even so, also wont die mah...There are so many things to do in life beside these stuff.

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