what to do? you must have charmed him too much earlier.
ask him what he likes in you. give a chance to listen to him. after that if you still think you don't like him, tell him what you like in your ideal man. qualities that he isn't or can't change to fit.
eg. if he is 1.7, tell him you prefer guys 1.77m at least. unless it's tom cruise...
if he is as young as you, tell him you prefer older guys, like george clooney.
but don't bruise his ego also la.. enough to drive home the point but not to kill his hopes and dreams.
And if he continues, you can tell him that you need space around you in case your knight in white horse comes along. got to leave a parking space for the horse also mah..
sign...too bad for you. I ride a grey horse. hehe..
Last edited by nikkie; 30th July 2007 at 04:16 PM.
This guy's action and behavior had crossed the line. If at the end of the day, he lost his job over this, so be it. Why should you care? His action is down right harrassment at this point.
My recommendation is to lodge a complain to HR, get it on record first.
I guess is, he will continue to harass you until something bad happenned. Just watch your back.
Find a boyfriend la or get married. Do more cruel things like hugging or kissing a guy in front of him! Tell him that u like a guy and keep raving about him. Be nice to other guys but nasty to him.
The best way to kill his interest is to get a real boyfriend.
Ok ok, I got the perfect solution!
He wants to take you out to dinner at Dempsey Road right?
Tell him you are willing to go ONLY IF and ONLY IF he agrees to take all the bros and sistas here out for the dinner (with him footing the bill of course!).
If he ain't scared off by that, no worries, it just means more free makan for us!!
i had been so frank and outright-spoken to him i cant even believe my own ears.
i ever did tell him that even if he's the last man on earth, i will never ever see myself with him together.
i swear i said that.
after that i really felt VERY bad.i sort of saw his eyes got teary.
To me, this thing is not a big problem at all.
Aside from the office how much contact do you have with this weirdo? like do you have to work with him on projects etc?