Keep holding out for that bai ma and you might just miss out on something good that might be right under your nose...not saying this nut is it though...seems like this thread is losing its momentum...
Resign and u won't see him. I hope.....
u can file sexual harassment against him
Don't wait too long for your prince charming to come ...
When age catches up with you, you'll be the SDU (single, desperate & ugly) doing all the harassing instead.
I know because it happened to me (not one but two SDUs).
It reached a point I can't take it anymore so I informed my boss (cc HR) in writing citing that I just cannot concentrate on my work without them giving me any personal space.
Eventually the ladies stopped and now they dare not even look at me anymore.
Not only guys, but gals can be thick-skinned too.
I'm sure they were also waiting for their prince charming to come, playing hard-to-get etc. when they were your age !!!
Last edited by Portraits of Nature; 2nd August 2007 at 05:12 AM.
Aunty Ice says:
When you have your chat with the guy - he might apologise and ask if you can be friends. If you do not want his obsessive behaviour then do not even say maybe to a possible friendship.
He would only see that as you leaving the door open.
Due to his inappropriate behaviour, the only relationship you want with him is a professional business relationship where you are work colleagues and nothing more. Set some rules about what would be okay and what would not.
Portraits of Nature - sounds like the chicks are looking for a toy boy!...guess you fit their criteria
Good luck Jeanie and keep being strong
Last edited by Lady Ice; 2nd August 2007 at 06:42 AM.
i dunno hu is this person as i'm very new here.. however i find that the problems lies with herself.. solutions given yt she dun accept it. she dun accept it why ask for solution... if dun wan, den bear with the nonsense of the guys.
i'm not so 'lucky' to have guys so persistent.. but sum guys juz need to use the hard way...
always the Light, .... always.