want to know what jeanie looks like?
all you have to do is to find the lamp
and rub it right
i'm a jeanie in a bottle.....
well, we've seen your hands, now we only have to imagine what the rest of you look like..
what is that new avatar?
No offence, but based on what I had 'seen' and 'heard' of you on this forum, I had the impression that you were perfectly capable of handling a situation like this.
As an attractive woman, you are bound to have your share of admirers. Last night I used the word 'pervert' for this guy. Actually, unless he does something obscene, I doubt I can classify him as a pervert. He is just an obsessive guy, totally infatuated with you. At some point, you might have unconsciously encouraged his moves. You might have found it pleasing to have someone worry after you. And this guy obviously got the wrong signals and went the wrong way.
The best way to deal with this is to tell him the truth. Getting another guy to go with you, coming to work early, going late etc. etc. are not gonna work. He will come up with ways to counteract your every move. Sit with him and tell him you DON'T CARE. Tell him if he wants to work with you, he better be professional about it - cut the personal crap. If he wants to break down and cry, so be it. If push comes to shove, threaten him. Tell him you will report to HR and that will be the end of the road for him. If he persists outside work, you can/should go to the police.
After all, you've got to choose what's important to you - your life and your sanity or your career.
There are all kinds of morons in this world, I just hope and wish that you get this guy off your back. Stay safe and take care.
The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt....