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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    so just because of one case and you pretty much changed your character to avoid future frictions with the rest of your friends?

    is it true of what other people in the world view singaporeans as?
    singaporeans dare not speak up?
    not really, i still comment on other ppls photos. but know who can take advice and who cant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paul_Yeo View Post
    If i have a friend who is fat and ugly, can I tell her the truth? will I get wack if I tell her the plain truth?
    well,she probably knows,and you're gonna break her by reminding her

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    joho, i had enough for the day, dont bring in another issue into the thread ok?

    i remain anoynomous only to people i choose to remain anoynomous.
    for many others, we are good/best of friends just like you and william.
    I am going to the National Stadium for a shoot like now. Do you want to join me...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ramius75 View Post
    not really, i still comment on other ppls photos. but know who can take advice and who cant.
    I think you are right. If you are the person's good friend, you will know him....so agar agar know if he can take what degree of commmments

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    Quote Originally Posted by nicholas68 View Post
    It happened to me too. Why must you be fake..

    Be yourself that is more important.
    some of you guys still dont get it.

    i stood by my philosophy.
    i be myself.i shoot my mind.
    i lose friends.
    yes, i know being truthful is important, being oneself is important.but at the rate it's going, i may lose all the good friends i meet in cs.

    i dont know about guys, but to a gal, losing a friend is undescribable.

    the thing is, somehow i foresee the frictional sparks coming, and yet i click to reply.
    am i stupid or dumb or dim?

    sometimes i wonder....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paul_Yeo View Post
    If i have a friend who is fat and ugly, can I tell her the truth? will I get wack if I tell her the plain truth?
    please do not insult those who are asthetically or horizontally challenged.if you want to give examples, there are tons.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paul_Yeo View Post
    If i have a friend who is fat and ugly, can I tell her the truth? will I get wack if I tell her the plain truth?
    if you are really a friend, if the weight is getting to be a health problem, you must tell her ... if she dreams to become a fashion model ... if you are a friend you must break the bad news

    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    i do not wish to be a target.
    maybe from now onwards i should learn to sing like angels.
    maybe?
    maybe?maybe?
    even thinking that made me shiver
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wisdomworld View Post
    A good book to recommend to you.
    thanks for the recommendation.
    but i have xray eyes, i can see through the book when u showed me.

    it says

    1)lie
    2)dont speak the truth
    3)lie
    4)bullshit them
    5)stroke their egos
    6)carry their -censored-
    7)smile even though you hate them
    8).
    9).
    .
    .
    .


    you know what i mean.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ramius75 View Post
    not really, i still comment on other ppls photos. but know who can take advice and who cant.
    so those who cant take advice/comments/critiques, do you STILL continue to post once they come up with a new series of pics?

    tell me.

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    it's amazing how you can use anonymity to make the story so one-sided.

    do you know how saintly you make yourself out to be in this thread?

    it's disgusting.

    that's why i say, if u want no names, i can't/won't comment, cos all u gotta do to refute is to say "no wat, i wasn't talking about william".

    so if u want "justice" and real HONEST and DIRECT opinions, u best state in more detail what you're talking about.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nicholas68 View Post
    I am going to the National Stadium for a shoot like now. Do you want to join me...
    i didnt bring my camera.but i would like to go for a drive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    please do not insult those who are asthetically or horizontally challenged.if you want to give examples, there are tons.
    why? I be myself. I shoot my mind.

    ok. I will speak like an angel from now onwards. sorry, I dun want to be rude to anyone here.


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    From the way you write..........I shall not comment further coz you have concluded yourself.

    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    thanks for the recommendation.
    but i have xray eyes, i can see through the book when u showed me.

    it says

    1)lie
    2)dont speak the truth
    3)lie
    4)bullshit them
    5)stroke their egos
    6)carry their -censored-
    7)smile even though you hate them
    8).
    9).
    .
    .
    .


    you know what i mean.
    Last edited by Wisdomworld; 26th April 2007 at 03:10 PM.

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    Well nobody says you cannot be honest and frank. thats a good virtue anyway but however what happened to tactfulness and sensitivity? and your truth is based on what??? your own perception? your up bringing? your environment? your influences? what is your so called truth??????

    So can a person be frank and yet sensitive/??? Of course it can be done........then a person should do frank and yet sensitive and not rude or provocative.

    WHat is the difference between comments and criticisms????? what happened to constructive comments?????? is there any purpose or benefits of putting somebody down??????? you can help someone improve by giving consturctive comments......that is some efforts that needed to be done.........just by giving outright criticisms is effortless need to say insensitive

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    Quote Originally Posted by jOhO View Post
    it's amazing how you can use anonymity to make the story so one-sided.

    do you know how saintly you make yourself out to be in this thread?

    it's disgusting.

    that's why i say, if u want no names, i can't/won't comment, cos all u gotta do to refute is to say "no wat, i wasn't talking about william".

    so if u want "justice" and real HONEST and DIRECT opinions, u best state in more detail what you're talking about.
    seriously, if you find the thread disgusting, there's a ignore button.
    there are other kopitiam tables to join your friends in.
    order your own drinks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jOhO View Post
    it's amazing how you can use anonymity to make the story so one-sided.

    do you know how saintly you make yourself out to be in this thread?

    it's disgusting.

    that's why i say, if u want no names, i can't/won't comment, cos all u gotta do to refute is to say "no wat, i wasn't talking about william".

    so if u want "justice" and real HONEST and DIRECT opinions, u best state in more detail what you're talking about.
    Claps!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    some of you guys still dont get it.

    i stood by my philosophy.
    i be myself.i shoot my mind.
    i lose friends.
    yes, i know being truthful is important, being oneself is important.but at the rate it's going, i may lose all the good friends i meet in cs.

    i dont know about guys, but to a gal, losing a friend is undescribable.

    the thing is, somehow i foresee the frictional sparks coming, and yet i click to reply.
    am i stupid or dumb or dim?

    sometimes i wonder....
    I lost 4 good friends in the past because I was too poor to go party with them. In the end they think I was trying to avoid them.

    So sometime is good to tell them the truth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    seriously, if you find the thread disgusting, there's a ignore button.
    there are other kopitiam tables to join your friends in.
    order your own drinks.
    Er, he is only speaking his mind out. You cannot accept it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paul_Yeo View Post
    why? I be myself. I shoot my mind.

    ok. I will speak like an angel from now onwards. sorry, I dun want to be rude to anyone here.

    see?this is a classic example of how one who's afraid of offending people runs off with tail between legs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeanie View Post
    seriously, if you find the thread disgusting, there's a ignore button.
    there are other kopitiam tables to join your friends in.
    order your own drinks.
    indeed there is, but i'm disgusted, not repelled.

    so would you like to comment on anything else besides that?

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