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    Quote Originally Posted by LOTUSfairy View Post
    Worst, u dun noe whether u want her to wait for you...OMG.!

    You must have consideration for her, time=youth!! ...it's 3-4 years, not 3-4 months.!!

    If u like her, then follow your heart, stop think here think there...and set your path straight, tell her...and both of u (u and the gal) plan...

    if you are unsure, forget it... dun waste her time...
    Yes, already considered all these facts. That's why I've been following my mind so far. But there are many ppl that seems very supportive abt following the heart. ~hai...

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    tell her and take it from there

    alls fair in love and war

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    Tell her and see what happens.

    Love can be a many splendid thing.

    Kelly Clarkson - The Trouble With Love Is
    Love can be a many splendid thing
    Has another joy you bring
    A dozen roses
    Diamond rings
    Dreams for sale
    And fairy tales
    It’ll make you hear a symphony
    And you’ll just want the world to see
    But like a drunk that makes you blind
    It’ll fool you every time

    The trouble with love is
    It can tear you up inside
    Make your heart believe a lie
    Gets stronger then your pride
    The trouble with love is
    It doesn’t care how fast you fall
    And you can’t refuse the call
    See you’ve got no say at all

    Now I was just a once a fool it’s true
    I played the game by all the rules
    But now my world’s a deeper blue
    I’m sadder but I’m wiser too
    I swore I’d never love again
    I swore my heart would never mend
    Said love wasn’t worth the pain
    But then I hear it call my name

    The trouble with love is
    It can tear you up inside
    Make your heart believe a lie
    Gets stronger then your pride
    The trouble with love is
    It doesn’t care how fast you fall
    And you can’t refuse the call
    See you’ve got no say at all

    Every time I turn around
    I think I’ve got it all
    My heart keeps callin
    And I keep on fallin
    Over and over again
    This set story always ends the same
    Me standin in the pouring rain
    It seems no matter what I do
    It tears my heart in two

    The trouble with love is (the trouble with love)
    It can tear you up inside (it can tear you up in side)
    Make your heart believe a lie (Make your heart believe a lie)
    Gets stronger then your pride
    (The trouble with love is) See your heart its in your soul
    (It doesn’t care how fast you fall) You wont remember control (?)
    (And you can’t refuse the call)
    See you’ve got no say at all
    The trouble with love is (Oooo….ya)
    It can tear you up inside
    Make your heart believe a lie (the trouble with love..)
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    You have to think about what you hope to achieve by telling her that you love her. Do you wish that your feelings were reciprocated? Personally, I find that most people say 'I love you', hoping to have their feelings reciprocated. Often, they get disappointed if their feelings weren't reciprocated.

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    You are certainly one unsure boy. Yes, boy. Lotusfairy is right, my boy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by manx View Post
    Is it wrong to tell a girl, that you love her, both knowing that in another 4,5mths you have to leave SG for at least 3-4yrs?
    Or is it better to just follow your heart and make these few months the most memorable time of both's life?
    Quote Originally Posted by manx View Post
    But we're both young, as we go out to the world, we'll meet more people, very likely our thoughts and heart will have already changed over those few years.
    Quote Originally Posted by manx View Post
    That's why I did not make a move although sometimes the eager to tell her how much you miss her and wanted to see her. ~hai...
    DOES THIS GIRL EVEN LIKES YOU? All all intent and purposes, she will REJECT your advances
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    Tell her! GO GO GO!

    I think you're just looking for some support from people her to tell you not to tell her. If you've already found your answer, then no point asking right?
    “How fortunate for leaders that men do not think.” - Adolf Hitler

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    Depends on what kind of life you are in living or in search of....

    A Life of Happiness: Live for the present with no regards for the past or the future. Take what you have at the moment, say what you mean and project your thoughts and feelings forward.

    A Life of Meaning: Live life with all aspects of the past events coinciding with your present and a never-ending obsession for the future. Connect the dots together to finalize on an acquired meaning you'll soon realize in the next few decades.

    Choose One.

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    Tell Her About It ~ Billy Joel

    Listen boy
    Dont want to see you let a good thing
    Slip away

    You know I dont like watching
    Anybody make the same mistakes
    I made

    Shes a real nice girl
    And shes always there for you
    But a nice girl wouldnt tell you what you should do

    Listen boy
    Im sure that you think you got it all
    Under control

    You dont want somebody telling you
    The way to stay in someones soul

    Youre a big boy now
    Youll never let her go
    But thats just the kind of thing
    She ought to know

    Tell her about it
    Tell her everything you feel
    Give her every reason to accept
    That youre for real

    Tell her about it
    Tell her all your crazy dreams
    Let her know you need her
    Let her know how much she means

    Listen boy
    Its not automatically a certain guarantee
    To insure yourself
    Youve got to provide communication constantly

    When you love someone
    Youre always insecure
    And theres only one good way
    To reassure

    Tell her about it
    Let her know how much you care
    When she cant be with you
    Tell her you wish you were there

    Tell her about it
    Every day before you leave
    Pay her some attention
    Give her something to believe

    Cause now and then
    Shell get to worrying
    Just because you havent spoken
    For so long
    Though you may not have done anything
    Will that be a consolation when shes gone

    Listen boy
    Its good information from a man
    Whos made mistakes

    Just a word or two that she gets from you
    Could be the difference that it makes

    Shes a trusting soul
    Shes put her trust in you
    But a girl like that wont tell you
    What you should do

    Tell her about it
    Tell her everything you feel
    Give her every reason
    To accept that youre for real

    Tell her about it
    Tell her all your crazy dreams
    Let her know you need her
    Let her know how much she means

    Tell her about it
    Tell her how you feel right now
    Tell her about it
    The girl dont want to wait too long
    You got to tell her about it
    Tell her now and you wont go wrong
    You got to tell her about it
    Before it gets too late
    You got to tell her about it
    You know the girl dont want
    To wait--you got to
    Tell her about it


    BTW he wrote that for a supermodel and then married her...
    Last edited by Zplus; 13th March 2007 at 04:12 PM.

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    But what's the point that if 4 mths later we got to part ?

    It's either the most beautiful 4mths or lose a close friend.

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    I'd like to know why you love/like her.



    If you can find a reason to answer me. Then forget about telling her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by manx View Post
    But what's the point that if 4 mths later we got to part ?

    It's either the most beautiful 4mths or lose a close friend.
    So you're saying she's the type who won't even consider friendship if the both of you can't be together as a couple?

    1. If she is that type of girl, then IMO she isn't mature enough.

    2. If she isn't, then why not?

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    after 3-4 months, u will be singing to her:

    Hold, hold me for a while
    I know this won't last forever
    So hold, hold me tonight
    Before the morning takes you away

    Hold, hold me for a while....

    What's that sparkle in your eyes?
    Is it tears that I see?
    Oh tomorrow you are gone
    So tomorrow I'm alone
    Short moments of time
    We have left to share our love

    Hold, hold me for a while
    I know this won't last forever
    So hold, hold me tonight
    Before the morning takes you away

    We're in each others arms
    Soon we're miles apart
    Can you imagine how I'll miss,
    Your touch and your kiss?
    Short moments of time
    We have left to share our love

    Hold, hold me for a while....

    Hold, hold me now,
    From dusk, all night to dawn
    Save, save me now,
    A short moment of time


    damn..its a beautiful song...
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G49Wrk8VZ5A

    the original version of the video which did not do justice to the beautiful song.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E822lknX1GM
    Last edited by LOTUSfairy; 13th March 2007 at 09:35 PM.

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    Love? The word is very strong... are you sure you love her? Or do you like her only?

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    hey... go study first lah...

    Since you've already made a commitment to study overseas for the next 3-4 years, you should stay focus. Are you ready for another heavy commitment on top of your studies? No doubt that there are many success stories of long distance relationship. But do you know how much the couple have to go thru to keep the love strong? I'm sure you will meet many interesting people out there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LOTUSfairy View Post
    frankly speaking, TS, I am gonna hurt your feeling, so pardon me.
    This is for your own good.

    If u cannot even makeup your mind, how would u expect her to have any faith in you..
    You dun even noe what will happen (lyou aid your direction/path?), and what u will able to promise her in the next 3-4years (@ overseas)..)

    Worst, u dun noe whether u want her to wait for you...OMG.!

    You must have consideration for her, time=youth!! ...it's 3-4 years, not 3-4 months.!!

    If u like her, then follow your heart, stop think here think there...and set your path straight, tell her...and both of u (u and the gal) plan...

    if you are unsure, forget it... dun waste her time...

    ...............Hope I am not too harsh, Hope it help.............................................. ....

    From a lady point of view.. (we dun like undecisivie guy!)
    I don't think he is undecided, just that he must be scared out of his wits to even say it. We are still a very conservative society and gals are not expected to openly express their love to a guy but the guy is expected to be the one saying 'I Love You' part.

    In my view, just do it. I mean just express your love to her and let her decide. Even if she rejects you, at least the load is off your shoulder and you can concentrate on what lies ahead, new relationships/studies/etc..

    Do it Man, just do it.

    P.S. Heartbreak takes a while to recover from, so do so if you are fully prepared. . If you want a chance of success, bowl her over with an event she cannot forget, plan for it properly at the right moment at a special place and remember what song is played whatever, just in case she becomes your wife, it gives a lot of mileage in future, trust me on this one. Women remembers every detail.

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    This thread is turning into a musical. Didn't know you could do a musical in a forum

    All the best to you manx. Whichever choice you make, I wish you the best of luck!

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    Aiyah, been there, done that for me...

    Although there was no happy ending for me, at least it was so sweet while it lasted. Live life with no regrets. You never know how your life will pan out... Seriously! Let yourself go and just give in to that dizzying heights on longing and loving feeling!

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    YOu are still so young. You may meet other people overseas. So many things can happen - so many permutations...

    I think you should just tell her that you're going away. Tell her that while realistically it may not work out long distance, if she is willing to make the effort, you guys can just give it a go. But if it doesn't work out, both just walk away from this as friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by manx View Post
    But what's the point that if 4 mths later we got to part ?

    It's either the most beautiful 4mths or lose a close friend.
    This is about the most pathetic remark, but one that is expected.
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