hi guys, one of my former NS officers committed suicide. will be going for her funeral wake later today. i havent attended many funerals before and so am unsure abt the usual practices.
1) what should i wear? jeans + drab coloured tee ok?
2) must give money? put in plain white envelope or how?
3) what do i do at the wake and how long should i spend there on average?
4) any other things to take note of?