The thing that is bothering me is that she is not even working now to support herself. While one may not always get the ideal job (yet) but to not work for the last few years and just live off her savings at 32 is kinda delusional (unless her savings are millions) and this is the part that bothers me. She wants to be a wife and mother - nothing wrong with that. But until she lands herself a husband, she should be out there working to make use of her time properly. Who knows, she may even meet someone at work.