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    currently m going thru a difficult time,
    some hurts of my own making,
    but others r plain betrayal.

    what do u bros do when a dog bites u?
    bite back?

    came across this site,

    http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/

    doesn't change a thing in the end,
    but was crying as i read.
    feels as if he understands.

    2 things upon reflection makes me feel very sorry for myself.
    -after 40yrs on earth,
    i don't have a friend who understands,
    -the one i love forsaken me.

    all my friends can say was it will be over,
    its not the end,
    u will hurt those who loves u, blah blah blah,
    sorry friends, but the pain is unbearable from day 1,
    n it gets worse with each passing day.

    to the one i love,
    thanks for everything.
    good n bad.

    jude
    thnx to all who actually read till this line,
    u r a minority
    ps- not killing myself, u can't kill something dead, can u?

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    Just find someone to talk to, even someone you don't know, it will helps.

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    Usually people say time is the best medicine...
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    And if you feel you are falling into depression. Recognise it and get help early.... Good luck.

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    jia you .. hope u get over all these soon.

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    I asked God to take away my habit.
    God said, No.
    It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.

    I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
    God said, No.
    His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary

    I asked God to grant me patience.
    God said, No.
    Patience is a byproduct of tribulations;
    it isn't granted, it is learned.

    I asked God to give me happiness.
    God said, No.
    I give you blessings; Happiness is up to you.

    I asked God to spare me pain.
    God said, No.
    Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares
    and brings you closer to me.

    I asked God to make my spirit grow.
    God said, No.
    You must grow on your own! ,
    but I will prune you to make you fruitful.

    I asked God for all things that I mightenjoy life.
    God said, No.
    I will give you life, so that you may enjoy all things.

    I ask God to help me LOVE others, as much as He loves me.
    God said...Ahhhh, finally you have the idea.



    THIS DAY IS YOURS DON'T THROW IT AWAY

    May God Bless You,
    "To the world you might be one person, but to one
    person you just might be the world"

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    Quote Originally Posted by kenele
    I asked God to take away my habit.
    God said, No.
    It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.

    I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
    God said, No.
    His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary

    I asked God to grant me patience.
    God said, No.
    Patience is a byproduct of tribulations;
    it isn't granted, it is learned.

    I asked God to give me happiness.
    God said, No.
    I give you blessings; Happiness is up to you.

    I asked God to spare me pain.
    God said, No.
    Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares
    and brings you closer to me.

    I asked God to make my spirit grow.
    God said, No.
    You must grow on your own! ,
    but I will prune you to make you fruitful.

    I asked God for all things that I mightenjoy life.
    God said, No.
    I will give you life, so that you may enjoy all things.

    I ask God to help me LOVE others, as much as He loves me.
    God said...Ahhhh, finally you have the idea.



    THIS DAY IS YOURS DON'T THROW IT AWAY

    May God Bless You,
    "To the world you might be one person, but to one
    person you just might be the world"
    How very true
    I get paid more shooting part time ...... damn, I should find more time to shoot part time

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    Yes, life is full of surprises. I've had my share of losses. I feel your pain.

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    aiya... the more u get stab, the more fortified is your skin... i am trying to be colossus... hiak hiak...

    anyway, just forget it lah, sometimes u got ppl who pop up & call u brudder, den behind your back stab you, den kapo your things, make your life miserable.. wat for? its fate lor... i can do the same back to them, multiply a few times, and i dun even need to lift a finger at it... but is it worth it? u yourself know the answer... for me, i just sit back, relax.. den just think... oh well... its just another b*stard... den draw 1 stroke on the wall...
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    Quote Originally Posted by judeseah
    currently m going thru a difficult time,
    some hurts of my own making,
    but others r plain betrayal.
    ...ps- not killing myself, u can't kill something dead, can u?
    I can feel your pain as you shared...
    The world is just a place, take its happenings one and a time,
    as you live to learn to take it easy Just drop that stone which is
    too heavy to bear. Dump the problem and forgive those who hurt
    you just as God had forgiven you for your doings.


    Everything -- absolutely everything -- that happens in our lives has a spiritual cause. Events on all other levels -- mental, emotional and physical -- are only effects.

    When we are struggling with any challenge, whether it be ill health, a lack of money, a lost job, poor relationships, an accident, whatever -- we need to look for the spiritual learning. We can ask ourselves, "What quality does my soul want me to live more fully?"

    "If you start to think the problem is ‘out there,’ stop yourself. That thought is the problem."

    -- Stephen Covey

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    "I want to know the thoughts of God;
    the rest are details."

    -- Albert Einstein

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    Quote Originally Posted by Del_CtrlnoAlt
    aiya... the more u get stab, the more fortified is your skin... i am trying to be colossus... hiak hiak...
    Wah.... not Juggernaut ah???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zplus
    Wah.... not Juggernaut ah???
    wo shi hao ren...
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    thanks to all who read,
    reply, PMed and some even called.
    it warmed my heart that even strangers cared.

    jude
    (tearing up, but this time with joy)

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    Quote Originally Posted by judeseah
    thanks to all who read,
    reply, PMed and some even called.
    it warmed my heart that even strangers cared.

    jude
    (tearing up, but this time with joy)
    /me sing...

    Hey Jude... .... .....

    (ok... i admit... i forgot the lyrics...)
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