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    Default what would u do?

    posted under B/S to sell 2 CF cards,
    after 2 bidders posting ur intentions,
    i close the thread n announce them winners.

    later, i receive a PM from 1 of them saying



    "hey how come no any single news from u?
    From the board it seems like u sell it to another guy already.
    But here u claim I am the winner????
    And not even any single apology???

    Mannnn..... u r a bad seller.... and it is very rude...
    claim I am the winner and sell it to other ppl"

    i still have the card with me,
    and i thot he smsed me???
    and when he did not confirm the timing for today,
    i have to postpone the meetup till wed.
    anyway, i was shocked.
    now i m offended,
    should i continue with the sales???

    rather throw it away than to let an ass benefit.


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    Default Re: what would u do?

    I think it is just a misunderstanding. These things happens in B&S. Don't take it to serious. Sell it to someone else if you are not happy. But I think since you announced him as being the winner you should offer it to him as a courtesy. If he refused then you can sell it to someone else.

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    Default Re: what would u do?

    since you are still in the middle of the transaction, it would not be good to complain about your buyers. if they played you out, then it is a different story. Looks like it is a misunderstanding, air it out between you and him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TMC
    since you are still in the middle of the transaction, it would not be good to complain about your buyers. if they played you out, then it is a different story. Looks like it is a misunderstanding, air it out between you and him.
    perhaps, threadstarter is using the indirect approach...
    Logging Off. "You have 2,631 messages stored, of a total 400 allowed." don't PM me.

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    Default Re: what would u do?

    thanks for ur opinions,
    still am mad with him.
    never once in my life anyone called me rude,
    now from someone that i think is benefitting
    from my genorousity.

    continue the sales?
    if i can avoid seeing his face,
    i will consider.
    anyway, after the furious typing,
    furious backspacing(due to the larger than usual error),
    cooling down.
    will call the backups who smsed me if
    i don't receive apologies from him.
    its his carelessness that he missed the part
    that i hv 2 cards.

    must go to 4 horses road for prayer.

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    Default Re: what would u do?

    It's ok, I've met very smug people while dealing also, it's life. Just deal and FO. Don't need to talk too much.

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    Default Re: what would u do?

    i oso got into a misunderstanding b4.

    i guess jus hav 2 learn from experience on how 2 avoid loopholes, communicate certain details, updating d thread on info, etc. i oso hav 2 read other CSers' thread & gleen tips on hoew 2 conduct a smoother & more fuss-free transaction.

    dun let an isolated incident get u so worked up, not all will b transactionz smooth. get mad, but get over it. there r other things in life more worth of ur energy & time. cheers!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sORe-EyEz
    i oso got into a misunderstanding b4.

    i guess jus hav 2 learn from experience on how 2 avoid loopholes, communicate certain details, updating d thread on info, etc. i oso hav 2 read other CSers' thread & gleen tips on hoew 2 conduct a smoother & more fuss-free transaction.

    dun let an isolated incident get u so worked up, not all will b transactionz smooth. get mad, but get over it. there r other things in life more worth of ur energy & time. cheers!!
    thanks.

    what pissed me off was he did not
    bother to read carefully or find out from me
    b4 calling me names when he felt that i should hv said sorry.

    why like that?

    n my flash has to stop working at the same time

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    Default Re: what would u do?

    dont waste such time getting mad at one person.
    explain to him briefly and thats it. If he dont bother, that heck care.
    not like he is oferring 1 million for it. Easy to find other buyers

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    Quote Originally Posted by judeseah
    thanks for ur opinions,
    still am mad with him.
    never once in my life anyone called me rude,
    now from someone that i think is benefitting
    from my genorousity.

    continue the sales?
    if i can avoid seeing his face,
    i will consider.
    anyway, after the furious typing,
    furious backspacing(due to the larger than usual error),
    cooling down.
    will call the backups who smsed me if
    i don't receive apologies from him.
    its his carelessness that he missed the part
    that i hv 2 cards.

    must go to 4 horses road for prayer.
    Yo buddy.....take it easy man!.....this type of case not worth to get bothered about.
    and yes.....think you have to pay a visit to 4 horse road.....kind of things are not shinning on your side recently........flash on and May God Bless You....

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    Default Re: what would u do?

    thanks bro Jesser.
    gotten over it now,
    just don't know if i should still sell?


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    Default Re: what would u do?

    blacklist that bugger. carry on with your sales.

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    Default Re: what would u do?

    We might need B&S star rating. 1 star==>bad buyer or seller, 5 star==>top buyer or seller.

    How we do that? Let the gurus think .

    Regards,
    Arto.

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    Default Re: what would u do?

    Quote Originally Posted by Artosoft
    We might need B&S star rating. 1 star==>bad buyer or seller, 5 star==>top buyer or seller.

    How we do that? Let the gurus think .

    Regards,
    Arto.
    yeah....thats a very good idea....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Artosoft
    We might need B&S star rating. 1 star==>bad buyer or seller, 5 star==>top buyer or seller.

    How we do that? Let the gurus think .

    Regards,
    Arto.
    We put complicated system to remedy simple common senses, because we human at times, refuse to use common sense. what have this world turn into?

    To Thread Started: I Think the other fella tot u have 1 card instead of 2, so when u close thread and announce winner... that inDUHvidual probably overreacted... sorta like tat... neitherway, like ESPN Said, FO tat guy and get along with life...

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