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    Quote Originally Posted by furrycake
    hehe.. they're fated to be together , nothing separates them

    i think my hubby's character complements mine. i very noisy, he very quiet. i retard , ok i rephase.. slow to pick up hints and then he's persistent enough. else i think wont work out also. fair & square i guess
    Sound like my friend too, your hubby Army guy? The wife like siao like that and retard too..

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhotoDog
    Got problem here leh, most men (me included) are bad at getting hint. So how?
    so how ar...? hmm

    there's one way. ASSUME all women are intersted in you unless proven DIRECTLY otherwise..

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    Quote Originally Posted by soma
    Sound like my friend too, your hubby Army guy? The wife like siao like that and retard too..
    i slow mah.. where got siao

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    Quote Originally Posted by furrycake
    i slow mah.. where got siao
    Sorry, i think i mix up liao, my friend wife not the plumb type..

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    Quote Originally Posted by jOhO
    since this is a male dominated forum, how many of u guys that are attached actually got CHASED by ur gf/wife?
    hehehe... more than 1... i am super shy...
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    Quote Originally Posted by soma
    Sorry, i think i mix up liao, my friend wife not the plumb type..
    Soma Ah Pek,
    you must suan me how many times per day? me not plumb

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    sorree hor.. it's not plumb.. it's PLUMP..

    *runs away*

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    Quote Originally Posted by jOhO
    sorree hor.. it's not plumb.. it's PLUMP..

    *runs away*
    oops, me spelling cmi

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    Quote Originally Posted by S11loop
    what happen if the gal u interested in has a BF already?
    What about for those who have a problem like:

    "what happens if the gal u interested in has a hubby already?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sion
    What about for those who have a problem like:

    "what happens if the gal u interested in has a hubby already?"
    Veri simple.

    Got BF can Break!
    Got Hubby can Divorce!
    Got Son can call u Lao Peh!

    Bu Lao Er Huo best deal!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jOhO
    .....since this is a male dominated forum, how many of u guys that are attached actually got CHASED by ur gf/wife?
    I don't think we borrow money from girls especially from GF or wife.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sion
    I don't think we borrow money from girls especially from GF or wife.
    ahah took me a while to get wat u meant..

    duhz!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jOhO
    go go go

    in the name of love...!!

    then getting married that time, come CS look for cheap wedding photogs.
    i can easily get 10x top notch photographers to shoot my wedding anytime


    u guys out there know who u are and this is my wildest personal wedding plans up till now

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    Quote Originally Posted by furrycake
    every rship has its ups & downs. from what i see, she could be on the rebound now, so she does have a high tendency to hold onto a life buoy she sees available. its like jumping from one spider web to another.. messy... really messy..

    put other issues aside. personally, i feel that the more impt questions you should be asking yourself are : -
    do you really love her for who she is?
    would she be happier with you?
    do you see a future with her ?
    would you, yourself feel guilty? it doesnt matter what others think.

    if i were the '3rd party', i'll withdraw to the very extreme. i dont know about others, but no matter how much i love the guy. he's never mine in the 1st place
    i just ask myself ...

    -yes , i would love her for she is but the feeling is not that deep yet maybe in the future .

    -she will definitly be happy with me now , i am confident enough in providing her needs and expectation from me

    -future ... yes i see it , if she loves me for as much as me when we are into each other then theres nothing i can doubt abt it ...

    Guilty ? nope . My name spells C.L.E.M.E.N.T T.A.N i dont need to answer to anybody regarding my action nor i will feel sorry for that guy , coz in the first place i cant stand the way he treated a woman and i never regret a single thing i do in my life

    i will rather the guy to hate me rather then to see her unhappy even after her wedding and later blame me for not approaching her , let out my hand give her a pair of wings so that she can fly to me .
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    Quote Originally Posted by S11loop
    i can easily get 10x top notch photographers to shoot my wedding anytime


    u guys out there know who u are and this is my wildest personal wedding plans up till now
    den u will be 10x poorer than other just married man...
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    Quote Originally Posted by S11loop
    i just ask myself ...

    -yes , i would love her for she is but the feeling is not that deep yet maybe in the future .

    -she will definitly be happy with me now , i am confident enough in providing her needs and expectation from me

    -future ... yes i see it , if she loves me for as much as me when we are into each other then theres nothing i can doubt abt it ...

    Guilty ? nope . My name spells C.L.E.M.E.N.T T.A.N i dont need to answer to anybody regarding my action nor i will feel sorry for that guy , coz in the first place i cant stand the way he treated a woman and i never regret a single thing i do in my life

    i will rather the guy to hate me rather then to see her unhappy even after her wedding and later blame me for not approaching her , let out my hand give her a pair of wings so that she can fly to me .
    brother u

    cos i normally rather let the situation be status quo, if there is no severe problems, i'll just leave it as it is, and hopefully they be happy...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Del_CtrlnoAlt
    den u will be 10x poorer than other just married man...
    no la... nowadays wedding photographers come F.O.C too!
    just check it out in Clubsnap! heh!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Del_CtrlnoAlt
    den u will be 10x poorer than other just married man...
    lol i dont mind coz by the day i could afford to hire my 10x friends to shoot for my wedding will be the day i am already somebody ... no money no marriage .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cheesecake
    no la... nowadays wedding photographers come F.O.C too!
    just check it out in Clubsnap! heh!

    ya ... and PAY THE EVENT ORGANISER TO SHOOT THE EVENT ! wonder what the hell is this market going ?

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    To the thread starter,

    some here say "go for it", some say dont....

    Well for me I wont say yes or no but just share with you some of my stories.

    For me I always had the unfortunate opportunity to meet gorgeous but emotionally unstable girls over the last few years. One become my gf now ex, a few became the kind that some would call "f*** buddy"

    Recently was away overseas at work and met a girl during the trip. Thought that she was nice and all... and frankly tired of all this complications. But end of the day found out that she is also complicated, ex bf, colleague and etc etc etc....

    I was very sweet and nice to her and I knew she liked the attention but then again I could expect nothing. Finally i decided one day.... nah I think Im really tired of being a life buoy.... Until this girls get their thinking straight, which ever guy that comes along will be a lifeboat.... For those who think that having a F*** buddy is a good thing.... well I can tell it from experience it sucks. That is unless you really just want to f*** and f*** off. Imagine after making love... she treats you like a ONS and happily sees other men.

    So I decided to break free and just treat her normally, meaning stop daily sms and all the jazz, stop being so nice... Now recently I have met another girl and although in terms of looks she can't hold a candle to any of the previous girls but at least she cares and she is not complicated. Her inner beauty is much more than that of those of the previous girls. And most importantly she makes me feel happy when Im with her.

    Why I said all the above jazz is to give you an insight into this scenario you are in now. If you say that you cant stand to see how the other guy treats her, well have you first asked how she feels? Call it perverse but dont we see how girls always bitch cry and lament about their "useless, *******" boyfriends but end of the day who do they go home with? The very "useless, *******" boyfriend and the nice guy is given a "Im really sorry but I still love my......." We guys tend to want to fix things and think that by stepping in by being nice, we will win the race. However unfortuntely there are girls that actually find nice guys, nice but wimps..... They prefer the bad part of a guy..... its strange really strange but it's what holds the relationship together..... Dont ask me why? Cos Im still trying to figure out this strange phenomena!!

    What do you want? Someone who will make you happy or someone to give you lots of drama and "excitement"? Do you love the person or do you love the process of loving her? Ask yourself this and I believe you will have your answer.
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