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    Quote Originally Posted by soma
    Never trust a woman that told another guy her relationship is on the rock. Hinting something! Too easy to complete the transcation. It's up to you to pick up or walk away.
    y so demoralised? must unless she really give u the feeling of being den bo pian lor...

    I think the Woman's UnCharter just made a new rule for them, so we should just enjoy the process... its perfectly fine to cheat a man... provided the man gets cheated...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Del_CtrlnoAlt
    y so demoralised? must unless she really give u the feeling of being den bo pian lor...

    I think the Woman's UnCharter just made a new rule for them, so we should just enjoy the process... its perfectly fine to cheat a man... provided the man gets cheated...
    Brother just be careful of some BF, ever see 1 bf cut himself on the arm infornt of the gf just because the gf don't talk to him. Imagine if the bf knew you are the 3rd party, i think the bf will still cut but not himself. Also too many time in the pub i see fight due to 3rd party trying on gf.

    This kind of thing could be fun but yet dangerous, so do it wisely, love is a dangerous game.

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    If the guy is insecure, the relationship will eventually hit rocks. It will happen even without your presence. So we got to look at their relationship problems and the possibility of both of you getting together as separate issues.

    Never put hope a 'rocky relationship' because your emotions will also follow the turbulence. Your feelings for her will move like the stock market.

    The rational thing to do is to keep things at friendship level. Even if they do break up, you still need to exercise restrain in this friendship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by espn
    SG ratio of gals to guy is 3:1.

    Why bother because of 1 only, there's still plenty to select from.
    Yah! good, bad and ugly..... pick anyone you like....

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    I'm no expert har. One cent's worth or less.

    Just a warning that becoming involved can be tough during the transition period, for guy or girl.

    Even if she was not happy in the relationship, a breakup can still be traumatic. There'll be all the thinking back on all the broken promises, he shouldn't have done this-and-that...

    If you start during transition (and that one don't know how long), you might also find that even if you do a lot for her, maybe she still won't tell people about the breakup, or do things that still seem like that guy is more important to her, that kind of thing. Only maybe have such thing. If it happens, be good to yourself.

    Statistically, I don't know guys or girls use the other as "planks" and "buoys" more, but it happens both ways. In theory, it is best to wait until that girl is "over him" before you start, but in real life, do what you gotta do!

    In the end, life is a ride, and like the others say, there are no rights and wrongs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by soma
    Brother just be careful of some BF, ever see 1 bf cut himself on the arm infornt of the gf just because the gf don't talk to him. Imagine if the bf knew you are the 3rd party, i think the bf will still cut but not himself. Also too many time in the pub i see fight due to 3rd party trying on gf.

    This kind of thing could be fun but yet dangerous, so do it wisely, love is a dangerous game.
    ok lah... i was KILLED & REVIVED with another purpose in life... the Heartbreak Kid... hehehe...

    anyway, cutting is something minor lor, pain to the body is nothing to pain in the ear... esp those who can't keep their gfs at bay and then harass you... sheesh... u'll see the weakness of MAN... when their gfs dun talk to them... really... esp those weaklings who go beg the ex bfs to ask their gfs to talk to them... .... i'll always remember u... (not u...) the joker who snatched my gf then called me in the middle of the night before my last paper to tell me to tell my ex to talk to u...

    now my MISSION Statement...

    We the citizen of Heartbreaker...
    Pledge ourselves to 1 united joker...
    Regardless of Race, Language or Religion..
    To tekan the moronic society...
    Based on happiness and longevity
    So as to achieve unhappiness, unprosperity and digress for their nation...
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    Quote Originally Posted by espn
    SG ratio of gals to guy is 3:1.

    Why bother because of 1 only, there's still plenty to select from.
    Not forgetting there are lot's of Ang Mo picking up gals here. Ang Mo ratio to gals 1:unlimited.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sORe-EyEz
    rite, plenty. but wad r they like? can b anything from d extremes of gd - bad.
    Who cares? A variety is always better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Del_CtrlnoAlt
    the joker who snatched my gf then called me in the middle of the night before my last paper to tell me to tell my ex to talk to u...
    Wah lau like that also can , how he get your number in the first place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Klose
    but every 8 out of 9 is hence the ratio becomes 1:3
    Oh... I see... forgot on that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by soma
    Never trust a woman that told another guy her relationship is on the rock. Hinting something! Too easy to complete the transcation. It's up to you to pick up or walk away.
    *serious note*

    Personally agree on this. I experienced it before, don't believe everything and anything she tells you. Fling if you want, but don't go further.

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    Quote Originally Posted by catchlights
    Yah! good, bad and ugly..... pick anyone you like....
    Aiyoh, before hiam people must ownself look into mirror ma... for ah peks like me, got already not bad liao still hiam good, bad, pretty, ugly meh??

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    Quote Originally Posted by soma
    Not forgetting there are lot's of Ang Mo picking up gals here. Ang Mo ratio to gals 1:unlimited.
    Actually, it's girls ratio to ang moh.. not vice versa... tonnes:1 LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by espn
    Aiyoh, before hiam people must ownself look into mirror ma... for ah peks like me, got already not bad liao still hiam good, bad, pretty, ugly meh??
    i thought like those sammyboy forum... still hiam got virgin anot...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Del_CtrlnoAlt
    i thought like those sammyboy forum... still hiam got virgin anot...
    Kaoz... I not SBF ah pek ok... I is NUF ah pek

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    Quote Originally Posted by soma
    Wah lau like that also can , how he get your number in the first place.
    hmmm my ex... he ask her y dun talk to him, she say, go ask me, damnit...

    he did 3 things i hate most... at 1 SHOT!
    call me when i am sleeping...
    den cry on the phone...
    and damnit... A GUY CRYING!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Del_CtrlnoAlt
    hmmm my ex... he ask her y dun talk to him, she say, go ask me, damnit...

    he did 3 things i hate most... at 1 SHOT!
    call me when i am sleeping...
    den cry on the phone...
    and damnit... A GUY CRYING!
    You sure that was a guy?

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    Not forgetting there are lot's of Ang Mo picking up gals here. Ang Mo ratio to gals 1:unlimited.

    Why you so discouraging one I think ang mohs should be worried, not us lah.
    I never fall for gals who has no pride or identity in themselves.

    Do you know how many ang moh char bors think we make betta husbands than ang mohs or not? LOL.....Grass does look greener on the other side.

    Just be yourself and compete in life, u will be surprised. Everyone come with his/her attributes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Benign
    Why you so discouraging one I think ang mohs should be worried, not us lah.
    I never fall for gals who has no pride or identity in themselves.

    Do you know how many ang moh char bors think we make betta husbands than ang mohs or not? LOL.....Grass does look greener on the other side.

    Just be yourself and compete in life, u will be surprised. Everyone come with his/her attributes.
    Ang moh's aren't worried one...

    Aiyah the one for you will come sooner later... ai zai... just relak and have fun man!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Benign
    Why you so discouraging one I think ang mohs should be worried, not us lah.
    I never fall for gals who has no pride or identity in themselves.

    Do you know how many ang moh char bors think we make betta husbands than ang mohs or not? LOL.....Grass does look greener on the other side.

    Just be yourself and compete in life, u will be surprised. Everyone come with his/her attributes.
    Never see any really pretty ang moh char bors here with chinese unually the not too pretty type.

    I pm you my wife picture, but don't show anyone can? if you could find ang moh better looking than her in singapore that are willing to take singaporean. i don't think so.

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