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    The Chinese term translates directly as “an old Joe with diamonds.” A diamond bachelor has usually passed the optimum marriage years, but is much valued because he is successful in his career and has status in society.

    Do many women desire such bachelors?

    This is a true story. Got to know this diamond bachelor through a mutual friend. This guy is 40 years old, working as a lawyer with income more than $10k monthly, living in a $5m downtown condo. He is also a man of both civil and military ability. Not only he is a lawyer, he is also muay thai fighter. Let not talk about his family; simply a tycoon family.

    Ok, so much about his credential. He is still not married. He wanted to settle down but can't find a girlfriend to begin with. He is not keen on matching making from foreign wife like China, Vietnam, etc. His dad is very worrying about his marriage. His dad's fortune can easily last his family for at least the next 3 generations. Technically speaking, any girl who eventually married him can be a "tai tai". Is this a dream for most girls?

    We did ask him what kind of girl he fancies. He like Caucasians. Can he win the heart of a Caucasian?

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    Russian girls??
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    Sure he can. The question is: will he be happy with her? One should not underestimate the cultural differences and the resulting different expectations and aspirations in life.
    Fist thing he should define for himself: does he want a "tai tai" or a woman at eye level? The latter one won't care much about his wealth but will bring in other priorities - and that's the point where EQ and social compatibility comes in. But we only know he has $.
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    Agreed, at this point it's for certain that nearly every woman who shows interest would be attracted to his money more than his muay thai skills...........
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jedi View Post
    The Chinese term translates directly as “an old Joe with diamonds.” A diamond bachelor has usually passed the optimum marriage years, but is much valued because he is successful in his career and has status in society.

    Do many women desire such bachelors?

    This is a true story. Got to know this diamond bachelor through a mutual friend. This guy is 40 years old, working as a lawyer with income more than $10k monthly, living in a $5m downtown condo. He is also a man of both civil and military ability. Not only he is a lawyer, he is also muay thai fighter. Let not talk about his family; simply a tycoon family.

    Ok, so much about his credential. He is still not married. He wanted to settle down but can't find a girlfriend to begin with. He is not keen on matching making from foreign wife like China, Vietnam, etc. His dad is very worrying about his marriage. His dad's fortune can easily last his family for at least the next 3 generations. Technically speaking, any girl who eventually married him can be a "tai tai". Is this a dream for most girls?

    We did ask him what kind of girl he fancies. He like Caucasians. Can he win the heart of a Caucasian?
    He likes ang mo?

    Ask him whether his one big enough for ang mo or not first

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    There is a saying... A wife that you marry before you get rich, you will be able to trust all your wealth with her. A wife you marry after you get rich, you will not be able to trust her at all.

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    Quite surprised that as a Lawyer and wealthy background he can't find a GF or wife.

    He must be mixing wrong gals that he going with or very high expectation for GF.

    One way he can do is put up an advertisement in that particular country and advertise he is seeking potential wife. Since he got no time to fly there can always fly those gals here for interview.

    Or, appoint an agency to go that country scout and short list those gals.

    I had seem similar adverts in China that those rich peoples looking for wife in this method.

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    maybe he picky.....
    Objection !!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by daredevil123 View Post
    There is a saying... A wife that you marry before you get rich, you will be able to trust all your wealth with her. A wife you marry after you get rich, you will not be able to trust her at all.
    The dilemma of marriage and wealth

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    Kei Chan may be just the gal for him:


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    Quote Originally Posted by donut88 View Post
    He likes ang mo?
    Ask him whether his one big enough for ang mo or not first
    Why? Have you been rejected because of that..?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Octarine View Post
    Why? Have you been rejected because of that..?
    Nah. I never like ang mo. So didn't have this problem

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    Quote Originally Posted by donut88 View Post
    Nah. I never like ang mo. So didn't have this problem
    SO you admit that there is a problem, if you were to ask a Western girl..?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Octarine View Post
    SO you admit that there is a problem, if you were to ask a Western girl..?
    I won't say there will be a.problem with me. Personal preference, I will go for Asians, esp Jap..... cute. Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by donut88 View Post
    He likes ang mo?

    Ask him whether his one big enough for ang mo or not first
    Why feel so inferior about the size?

    Not relating to this guy. I have another good friend who went to UK for 4 years to study for his undergraduate. He had a Caucasian girlfriend who he screwed everyday.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sion View Post
    Kei Chan may be just the gal for him:

    Have you seen her personally before to confirm her gender?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jedi View Post
    Have you seen her personally before to confirm her gender?
    That is something for you to find out.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sion View Post
    That is something for you to find out.

    Unless somebody has seen her in person before to confirm the gender, else it is always a mystery. How can one tell the gender behind a computer screen?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jedi View Post
    Unless somebody has seen her in person before to confirm the gender, else it is always a mystery. How can one tell the gender behind a computer screen?
    Even standing in front of the person might not be sufficient to determine the gender
    Further checks should not be done in public
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    Quote Originally Posted by Octarine View Post
    Even standing in front of the person might not be sufficient to determine the gender Further checks should not be done in public
    You might have to look veryyyyyyyyyy closely.
    Now the skill of micro surgery is so advance that might fool you. 😜😜

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