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    To katherine - I feel sympathy of such an mishap to meet an IRRESPONSIBLE freelancer,

    Maybe your thread could serve as a lesson for all Couples and Freelancer in the market.. Be responsible and dedicate even if you are freelancing. A bad name goes a long way.

    For Kah Heng, it is understandable of how you feel. Unfortunately in this world, there are many people who could share same name.

    Cheers to all... World Peace...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Keith
    For Kah Heng, it is understandable of how you feel. Unfortunately in this world, there are many people who could share same name.
    Which is why it's just irresponsible not to use the full name in the original post if one intends to shame a party in public. How does she know there aren't other innocent people with the same name in the forum(s) she post(s) in, so that she might inadvertently cause other people to mistake and misunderstand (Hmm, shouldn't this be called 'mislandering'? )

    Already a paparazzi wannabe want to stake out my window with his rather inadequate 300mm lens. Wah I better dress nicely for the whole week. You never know with these people when my picture might appear in their blogs. Kena Tomorrow'd in my ugly togs then I die. Hmm, I had better get my hair cut too. Yes, I must wear my thong underwear, also cannot shop at Mustafa at weird hours from now on.

    Quote Originally Posted by Keith
    Cheers to all... World Peace...
    World peace my foot. You never heard the Billy Joel song meh? "We didn't start the fire, but the fire's been burning since the world's been turning............."
    Last edited by kahheng; 28th June 2005 at 11:04 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kahheng
    Which is why it's just irresponsible not to use the full name in the original post if one intends to shame a party in public. How does she know there aren't other innocent people with the same name in the forum(s) she post(s) in, so that she might inadvertently cause other people to mistake and misunderstand (Hmm, shouldn't this be called 'mislandering'? )

    Already a paparazzi wannabe want to stake out my window with his rather inadequate 300mm lens. Wah I better dress nicely for the whole week. You never know with these people when my picture might appear in their blogs. Kena Tomorrow'd in my ugly togs then I die. Hmm, I had better get my hair cut too.

    World peace my foot. You never heard the Billy Joel song meh? "We didn't start the fire, but the fire's been burning since the world's been turning............."
    I'm sure this Katherine is hopping mad abt what happened. Not a matter of being a SNAG or macho, try treating ur wife's wedding like a piece of cake with the most ultimate cockups u can ever throw at her and see if she'll divorce u by the end of the day.

    She had made her stance here and in other forums - To warn others of an unethical freelance Photographer.

    We (and you) had made the stance - this kahheng does not shoot dogs, kids and weddings. So obviously the chap wasn't you. You are clean, everyone in CS knows it.

    Now what good is it to all to continue pursuing the matter till the end of days or until Mrs Katherine had posted an apology notice on the first page of ST or here?

    You are a man, probably in your late 20s or 30s. If you can't show magnamity to let things go and continue ur juvenile sacarsm towards a lady who has absolutely no idea that there's a chap in here with the same name and with no intention of 'slandering' you, I'm sorry to say, you certainly ain't worthy of your age.

    For what's worth. +1. Mods! Plz lock this thread. Thnx.

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    Alright, so from this episode we learn that when we want to lodge a complain in a public forum, spell out the person's full name to prevent any misunderstanding.

    Now that kahheng's name has been "cleared" (or rather, the misunderstanding has been resolved), let's just learn from the bride's experience too...

    kahheng, I don't think you're that famous, so you can continue wearing your thong underwears and go Mustafa and buy a stereo.

    Sympathies to the couple too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kahheng
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    Already a paparazzi wannabe want to stake out my window with his rather inadequate 300mm lens. Wah I better dress nicely for the whole week. You never know with these people when my picture might appear in their blogs. Kena Tomorrow'd in my ugly togs then I die. Hmm, I had better get my hair cut too. Yes, I must wear my thong underwear, also cannot shop at Mustafa at weird hours from now on.



    World peace my foot. You never heard the Billy Joel song meh? "We didn't start the fire, but the fire's been burning since the world's been turning............."
    Don't worry! I KNOW WHERE AND HOW TO FIND YOU!!!!

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    The mistake has been made during the wedding, and as much as I sympathize with the lady, barging in and just slapping a name around speaks lot for maturity.

    If you ever want to complain and have legitimate grounds to do so, please list the full name.If not, don't even bother to list the name.Just air your grievances.

    My 2 cents.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jsbn
    We (and you) had made the stance - this kahheng does not shoot dogs, kids and weddings. So obviously the chap wasn't you. You are clean, everyone in CS knows it.
    Which "we" are you part of?

    Quote Originally Posted by jsbn
    You are a man, probably in your late 20s or 30s. If you can't show magnamity to let things go and continue ur juvenile sacarsm towards a lady who has absolutely no idea that there's a chap in here with the same name and with no intention of 'slandering' you, I'm sorry to say, you certainly ain't worthy of your age.
    That last sentence is a quotable quote. It goes for many a person in this forum. I am very sorry to say that too.

    A "lady" would not whine.

    My posts on this thread are as juvenile as the whiney woman who is apparently old enough to get married but not old enough to understand the danger of wildly using someone's name in an online forum in a small country.

    [Frankly I prefer you use the term "infantile" - I wasn't attempting to be "juvenile"]

    Aiyah, please lock up lah, +1, +2, +3...........
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    Quote Originally Posted by litefoot
    Honestly I cannot understand how a no-show from a photographer spoilt the whole event or for that matter the whole day.
    I cannot tahan anymore, so i post in this hr. If you think photographer does not appear in ACTUAL DAY WEDDING will not spoilt the whole event or the whole day, i wonder what is important for the couples.

    The AD is one of the most important day for the couple, the pics will be kept for a life time, it is unreplaceable, young boy.

    You cannot understand, then by all means don't post this sort of statement. It shows that you are not learning the correct attitude of holding to a camera.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smurfman
    I cannot tahan anymore, so i post in this hr. If you think photographer does not appear in ACTUAL DAY WEDDING will not spoilt the whole event or the whole day, i wonder what is important for the couples.

    The AD is one of the most important day for the couple, the pics will be kept for a life time, it is unreplaceable, young boy.

    You cannot understand, then by all means don't post this sort of statement. It shows that you are not learning the correct attitude of holding to a camera.
    You are rite ... and all their friends and relatives will be wondering why they cant even afford a photographer to capture down those memories ...
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    To KAH HENG:

    The sentences u use are too ungentleman. Yes, she did not spell the whole name, but for god sake, must you reply in this manner?

    What you need to do is clarify, and thats all.

    What the bride lose out is more then you lose out, have a bigger heart.

    AD is too important for any kok ups.

    To all those who think that by not appearing in any event is some thing not serious, please by all means do not hold a camera, you are not worthy enough to hold it, cos you DO NOT HAVE THE ATTITUDE OF BEING A PHOTOGRAPHER.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smurfman
    To KAH HENG:

    The sentences u use are too ungentleman. Yes, she did not spell the whole name, but for god sake, must you reply in this manner?

    What you need to do is clarify, and thats all.
    I didn't grow up in a good home mah


    Quote Originally Posted by smurfman
    What the bride lose out is more then you lose out, have a bigger heart.
    Oh yeah? I don't think so leh. In life you only have your name.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kahheng
    I didn't grow up in a good home mah

    Oh yeah? I don't think so leh. In life you only have your name.
    My goodness!!

    You are rubbing salt now! You think she can redo her wedding day again??

    If it is a misunderstanding, just make it clear and no one will bother you again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kahheng

    Oh yeah? I don't think so leh. In life you only have your name.
    Now everyone knows that you are not chris soh.

    I do not see anything wrong, just that that photographer shares the same name as you.

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    seriously, i don't think he's bothered at all.

    i would say he's quite entertained, here in this thread.

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    whoa~ this thread is really hot!

    Hi Kat! Congrats on getting married!! Sorry to hear about what happened on your AD... nab that guy!! I'm cheering you on!
    Budget wedding photographer :)

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    Quote Originally Posted by kahheng
    Which is why it's just irresponsible not to use the full name in the original post if one intends to shame a party in public. How does she know there aren't other innocent people with the same name in the forum(s) she post(s) in, so that she might inadvertently cause other people to mistake and misunderstand (Hmm, shouldn't this be called 'mislandering'? )

    Already a paparazzi wannabe want to stake out my window with his rather inadequate 300mm lens. Wah I better dress nicely for the whole week. You never know with these people when my picture might appear in their blogs. Kena Tomorrow'd in my ugly togs then I die. Hmm, I had better get my hair cut too. Yes, I must wear my thong underwear, also cannot shop at Mustafa at weird hours from now on.



    World peace my foot. You never heard the Billy Joel song meh? "We didn't start the fire, but the fire's been burning since the world's been turning............."
    she actually did mention his full name in post #13. so unless you are also "soh kah heng", i don't know what you are so worked up about. if anything, your posts are starting to make you look really bad.

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    thanks for sharing katherine... sorry it had to happen to u...

    my bro just got married on 25 june too, congrats to u

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    Quote Originally Posted by kahheng
    I didn't grow up in a good home mah

    Oh yeah? I don't think so leh. In life you only have your name.
    I rather you don't reply, that is a unbelievably poor excuse. There many other like you mention that deserve more sympathy like those in the third world countries and those who haven't been able to rebuild their lives after the tsunami, the oppressed in Darfour, the Iraqis whose lives have been shattered by non-stop terrorism perpetrated by both American and Islamic radicals, my neighbour whose husband just passed away, the poor hungry kitten downstairs can have a better attitude.

    You are giving your name Kah Heng a very good impression indeed.

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    I don't think this is a case of an irresponsible photographer. This is a case of a con artist, a cheat. It's same as accepting deposit for car and running away. Call the Police!!!!

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