rude people in forum

jialuvqr · 29th May 2005

any encounter before?

had met some very rude ppl who sms or Pm in a very rude manner

really can't stand these ppl....can't belive such ppl are in such forum

moos blues · 29th May 2005

u'll meet all sorts ba... =)

I had a lecturer once, his sms just seemed plain rude, but actually he just does not take off the Caps...

jialuvqr · 29th May 2005

Originally Posted by moos blues

u'll meet all sorts ba... =)

I had a lecturer once, his sms just seemed plain rude, but actually he just does not take off the Caps...

yah!

really can't stand when ppl use Caps to sms

but ppl in here should be quite civilised mah.....the ones I encounter...alamak!

reachme2003 · 29th May 2005

Originally Posted by jialuvqr

any encounter before?

had met some very rude ppl who sms or Pm in a very rude manner

really can't stand these ppl....can't belive such ppl are in such forum

they are crawling everywhere. everywhere.

Del_CtrlnoAlt · 29th May 2005

come to think about it... is every passerby on the streets polite as well? some will shove you around, step on your shoes without an apology... so there will always be different sort of ppl around everywhere... just give & take...

PhotoDog · 29th May 2005

Well, can't blame all people who use all cap also because some people just don't know the rules of electronic communication. Just tell them nicely about this rule.

zaxh81 · 29th May 2005

Originally Posted by jialuvqr

any encounter before?

had met some very rude ppl who sms or Pm in a very rude manner

really can't stand these ppl....can't belive such ppl are in such forum

You might be refering to the sell thread that you start.
if it so,allow me to give my opinion.
i find that faran comment was not rude,as a potential buyer,he was just confirming if a product posted was really as stated.He had the right to do so.
Unless that he was comparing price,saying that XX shop is selling lower or boosting he can get lower,then i consider that very rude.
Sorry if you don't agree with me but just my view.

irage · 30th May 2005

I seconded zaxh81. I saw the message too. My personal view is the message is not offensive per se. The NUS guy was just clarifying on some of the point. a message can be perceived differently. The common question that some of us might have heard before; Do you see the glass half-empty or half-full?...

Stay cool, bro...

Originally Posted by zaxh81

You might be refering to the sell thread that you start.
if it so,allow me to give my opinion.
i find that faran comment was not rude,as a potential buyer,he was just confirming if a product posted was really as stated.He had the right to do so.
Unless that he was comparing price,saying that XX shop is selling lower or boosting he can get lower,then i consider that very rude.
Sorry if you don't agree with me but just my view.

jialuvqr · 30th May 2005

then he should have ask only about the product and not make comments on the buyer himself

do read it carefully....its more like a personal attack

reachme2003 · 30th May 2005

Originally Posted by moos blues

u'll meet all sorts ba... =)

I had a lecturer once, his sms just seemed plain rude, but actually he just does not take off the Caps...

i wonder how one arrives at a conclusion that a person is rude when he does not take off the caps? be more tolerant.

KNIGHT ONG · 30th May 2005

encounter before .. so wat can we do ???

guess the best ways is to ignore lor ....

leeter · 30th May 2005

jialuvqr, don't get too mad abt that Faran thingy. Even we two had misunderstanding. Personally i guess he really wanted to know if it's MINT as stated. But maybe he should had PM you directly.

bwilly · 30th May 2005

Personally I think if its a posting error, just indicate in the open via the actual post to get clarfication. (so far there's no posting to follow up on the acrtual condition)

Rather than misunderstanding carry on till actual meetup, both parties does not agree what is what.

Unless someone want to cover up, and hoodwink..

Just sms n PM I think its getting personal.
The guy also try to bring the price of the product down??
Or really damn free.

Anyway most of the CSers agree that its not rude by Faran, so your own thoughts - jialuvqr

eric69 · 30th May 2005

Originally Posted by jialuvqr

any encounter before?

had met some very rude ppl who sms or Pm in a very rude manner

really can't stand these ppl....can't belive such ppl are in such forum

Aiya, all the time lah, you meet all sort of funny dick-heads around, not only in Clubsnap, in my workplace too. They're everywhere lor. Some of the clubnappers may also think I'm a nasty guy too, becos I poked their backsides by saying their photos sucks or having a different views from their ignorant views etc. But who cares, man? Anyway, they can say whatever they like, and I say whatever I want.. Haha.. It's the way the world revolves.. But frankly, in person, I'm a super nice guy.. hehehe...

Snow_One · 30th May 2005

Wah... reminds me of the show where the 'Chou Yong Fatt" says"

"I talk loudly doen't me I'm disrespectful" to a prison officer

eric69 · 30th May 2005

Originally Posted by zaxh81

You might be refering to the sell thread that you start.
if it so,allow me to give my opinion.
i find that faran comment was not rude,as a potential buyer,he was just confirming if a product posted was really as stated.He had the right to do so.
Unless that he was comparing price,saying that XX shop is selling lower or boosting he can get lower,then i consider that very rude.
Sorry if you don't agree with me but just my view.

Haha, the "Sell-&-Buy" forum AGAIN huh.. Aiyo, you can meet all kind of silly people asking silly questions lah. I posted a couple of Sell threads on the forum. Majority of them who post threads to S&B are just too free lah. 99% are just pass-by's, asking questions just to sound intelligent. Only 1% is geniune buyers. Just ignore these people lor.. These people get a kick out of making others angry an piss-off. Haha.. Anyway, chances are misunderstanding is usually the cause.

Oh, do I sound rude here? Get a life then if I does. Haha..

surge · 30th May 2005

actually ppl who sms in caps are mostly older generation who are trying to cath up ans smsing also. had a friend who sms me all the time with cap and spell name wrongly and no punctuation or proper sentence...plain rude bum if you read his message but if you know him he is such a nice guy that you will know he will never be rude to you like it appeared in the message

XenoBaka · 30th May 2005

Those ppl who sms in caps etc, most of the time they do not mean to be rude. They are just unaware of the sms/internet etiquette e.g. CAPS = shouting. Normally i'll just tactfully educate them regarding the matter.

bwilly · 30th May 2005

I think its not sms in caps that upset jialuvqr..
if that's the case, another story..

maybe he likes to clarify what he's upset actually..
the sms/pm message??

Like to keep a mystery ..?

hongsien · 30th May 2005

Originally Posted by jialuvqr

then he should have ask only about the product and not make comments on the buyer himself

do read it carefully....its more like a personal attack

Sorry mate, but can't see any personal attacks in his message on the forum....he was just trying to find out if your description of the camerabeing MINT was the same as that held by Clubsnap B&S forum

Quote: "I am sorry but do you think that your camera fulfils the criteria of MINT as described in the forum?".......because from your own product description it is a used camera, but the Clubsnap forum handles MINT as being: Description: Like new. Not used since it left the shop. No signs of use.
Also known as: Mint.

So, he did find a difference with your description.......but you mentioned PM and SMS in a rude manner, is it about your ad or not? Or is it regarding something else?

Hong Sien

29th May 2005	#1
jialuvqr Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 263	rude people in forum any encounter before? had met some very rude ppl who sms or Pm in a very rude manner really can't stand these ppl....can't belive such ppl are in such forum

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Del_CtrlnoAlt Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Outside the Dry Box. Posts: 16,342	come to think about it... is every passerby on the streets polite as well? some will shove you around, step on your shoes without an apology... so there will always be different sort of ppl around everywhere... just give & take... __________________ Logging Off Permanently. Those who need to contact me will know where to contact me.

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KNIGHT ONG Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Snow Mountain Posts: 5,727	encounter before .. so wat can we do ??? guess the best ways is to ignore lor .... __________________ AMPA * Studio * J team

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moos blues Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Pasir ris Posts: 681	u'll meet all sorts ba... =) I had a lecturer once, his sms just seemed plain rude, but actually he just does not take off the Caps...

29th May 2005	#6
PhotoDog Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Tampines Posts: 136	Well, can't blame all people who use all cap also because some people just don't know the rules of electronic communication. Just tell them nicely about this rule.

30th May 2005	#12
leeter Member Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,233	jialuvqr, don't get too mad abt that Faran thingy. Even we two had misunderstanding. Personally i guess he really wanted to know if it's MINT as stated. But maybe he should had PM you directly.

30th May 2005	#13
bwilly Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Woodlands Posts: 1,835	Personally I think if its a posting error, just indicate in the open via the actual post to get clarfication. (so far there's no posting to follow up on the acrtual condition) Rather than misunderstanding carry on till actual meetup, both parties does not agree what is what. Unless someone want to cover up, and hoodwink.. Just sms n PM I think its getting personal. The guy also try to bring the price of the product down?? Or really damn free. Anyway most of the CSers agree that its not rude by Faran, so your own thoughts - jialuvqr

30th May 2005	#15
Snow_One Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 113	Wah... reminds me of the show where the 'Chou Yong Fatt" says" "I talk loudly doen't me I'm disrespectful" to a prison officer

30th May 2005	#17
surge Member Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: north Posts: 1,247	actually ppl who sms in caps are mostly older generation who are trying to cath up ans smsing also. had a friend who sms me all the time with cap and spell name wrongly and no punctuation or proper sentence...plain rude bum if you read his message but if you know him he is such a nice guy that you will know he will never be rude to you like it appeared in the message

30th May 2005	#18
XenoBaka Member Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 221	Those ppl who sms in caps etc, most of the time they do not mean to be rude. They are just unaware of the sms/internet etiquette e.g. CAPS = shouting. Normally i'll just tactfully educate them regarding the matter.