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    Default Would you cheat on your other half if....

    you knew that you will never be caught?

    Lets all be really candid about this. I conducted a straw poll once with a few ppl i know and i got a surprising number of people that said yes, male AND female.... So i'm just curious how prevalent this attitude is....
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    Originally posted by Wolfgang
    you knew that you will never be caught?

    Lets all be really candid about this. I conducted a straw poll once with a few ppl i know and i got a surprising number of people that said yes, male AND female.... So i'm just curious how prevalent this attitude is....
    OF COS NOT!!...it's not about whether he will find out or not, it's about your own conscience...it will be the guilt-feeling that will ultimately ruined the relationship...shld watch the movie Unfaithful...

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    Default Re: Re: Would you cheat on your other half if....

    Originally posted by shaann


    OF COS NOT!!...it's not about whether he will find out or not, it's about your own conscience...it will be the guilt-feeling that will ultimately ruined the relationship...shld watch the movie Unfaithful...
    This poll is partly inspired by the movie, but the point here is, lets not use this movie as a gauge, since different cultures embraces a different sets of values.....
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    Well... my heart died long ago ...

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    Sometimes things will go out of hand in life. So even if you don't cheat, how sure are you that your partner will do the same ?
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    Have to be honest and say that it's always been the fear of God that keeps me from cheating. My spouse may never find out, but I know that I can't hide anything from God.

    Oops, not supposed to talk about religion, izzit?

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    here's the formula. think it applies to everyone.

    how attractive the person is(a) * how horny you are(b) /
    how much you love youur current partner(c)

    'a', 1-10, 1=kissable, 10=diane lane 20 years ago
    'b', 1-10, 1=i just saw my parents make out, 10=i could screw a donkey
    'c', must be non-zero. 1=i'm with him/her just to pass time. 10=one and only love in the world

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    Originally posted by art2d2
    Sometimes things will go out of hand in life. So even if you don't cheat, how sure are you that your partner will do the same ?
    Ah.. the Devil's advocate. Well, i guess it's that absolute faith you have in your partner, as well as how much you know her...
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    Originally posted by maddog
    here's the formula. think it applies to everyone.

    how attractive the person is(a) * how horny you are(b) /
    how much you love youur current partner(c)

    'a', 1-10, 1=kissable, 10=diane lane 20 years ago
    'b', 1-10, 1=i just saw my parents make out, 10=i could screw a donkey
    'c', must be non-zero. 1=i'm with him/her just to pass time. 10=one and only love in the world
    There's even a formula to decide whether you ought to cheat?
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    Originally posted by Wolfgang


    There's even a formula to decide whether you ought to cheat?
    nono.. this formula states the likelihood of you cheating. the higher the number the more likely..

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    so wat's ur rating for ur current gf:
    how attractive the person is(a) * how horny you are(b) /
    how much you love youur current partner(c)
    ??....

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    A true man does not need to romance a different girl every night, a true man romances the same girl for the rest of her life.

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    Originally posted by Simon
    Very True Nice quote Simon

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    Originally posted by Simon
    A true man does not need to romance a different girl every night, a true man romances the same girl for the rest of her life.
    This, coming from Simon, our resident lady killer??!!
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    Maybe the event of such happenings is due to
    weak foundation of the knowledge of marriage.
    The parties involved should have proper guidance
    into this important event.

    Found this passage from Atharva Veda which may
    provide good reading for some of us.


    "The union of hearts and minds
    and freedom from hate I'll bring you.
    Love one another as the cow
    loves the calf that she has borne.


    Let son be loyal to father,
    and of one mind with his mother;
    let wife speak to husband words
    that are honey-sweet and gentle.


    Let not a brother hate a brother,
    nor a sister hate a sister,
    unanimous, united in aims,
    speak you words with friendliness.


    I will make the prayer for that
    concord among men at home
    by which the gods do not separate,
    nor ever hate one another.


    Be not parted--growing old, taking thought,
    thriving together, moving under a common yoke,
    come speaking sweetly to one another;
    I'll make you have one aim and be of one mind.


    Common be your water-store, common your share of food;
    I bind you together to a common yoke.
    United, gather round the sacrificial fire
    like spokes around the nave of a wheel.


    With your common desire I'll make you all
    have one aim, be of one mind, following one leader,
    like the gods who preserve their immortality.
    Morn and eve may there be the loving heart in you.



    It takes time to mend a broken heart but once the lesson
    is learn, life have to go on and leave the past behind.
    The Creator knows what is happening to you, so you can
    go and help yourself to all the happines that you want.

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    Although I have no good spirits,
    We will drink, and perhaps be satisfied.
    Although I have no good viands,
    We will eat, and perhaps be satisfied.
    Although I have no virtue to impart to you,
    We will sing and dance.

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    Originally posted by forward
    Maybe the event of such happenings is due to
    weak foundation of the knowledge of marriage.
    The parties involved should have proper guidance
    into this important event.

    Found this passage from Atharva Veda which may
    provide good reading for some of us.

    i hope i'm not offending anyone here by saying this, but....

    Atharva who?????? who's that
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    Originally posted by Red Dawn


    i hope i'm not offending anyone here by saying this, but....

    Atharva who?????? who's that
    Please enlighten thou as well.

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    i wouldn't cheat on him in the sexual kinda way (i.e by having sex)
    but...

    it's kinda hard to control one's emotions when one meets another whom one can 'connect' with in a special kinda way.

    and it's almost not possible that you'll never get caught cos it's really obvious when your heart is somewhere else and thoughts about someone else.

    and the guilt that comes with all this really sucks.

    so no, i wdn't.

    unless he cheated on me before, then i would, to level the score.

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    Originally posted by wildhoney
    i wouldn't cheat on him in the sexual kinda way (i.e by having sex)
    but...

    it's kinda hard to control one's emotions when one meets another whom one can 'connect' with in a special kinda way.

    and it's almost not possible that you'll never get caught cos it's really obvious when your heart is somewhere else and thoughts about someone else.

    and the guilt that comes with all this really sucks.

    so no, i wdn't.

    unless he cheated on me before, then i would, to level the score.
    Level the score?

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